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friday night and ....
| Sat, 01-06-2007 - 12:13am |
Well ladies it's Friday night and since the recent break up I certainly haven't been dating. I dont' even know how to meet someone! So my ex has the boys this weekend and in lieu of a date I went to the gym and came home and treated myself to a glass of champagne. I just got news of a major development in my new business and instead of lamenting the loss of my relationship (which I've been feeling all day by the way) I'm celebrating my little victory.
Tomorrow morning I'm going to kickboxing in the morning. I'm trying to take really good care of myself instead of inhaling cheetohs and cartons of ice cream.
I hope you're all having a fabulous weekend and dating great men.

Coco, I spent the evening prepping my house for Droid's brithday party, which is today, Saturday. I'm not entirely sure why I both, since it'll be torn apart in much quicker fashion than I took me to put it together!
I don't have any dates, although I did have a first conversation with a guy from match. He was nice enough, I suppose, but we talked for way too long. I kept trying to get him off the phone... I didn't want to be rude, and he's a chatterbox. So, I'm not sure that I'm interested, but at this point, I'm not not interested, and I don't want to rule out any possibilities or make Double D the only potential. We'll see where, if anywhere, it goes.
I'm enjoying the fact that this weekend is holiday free, I am spending it with my children, and we are doing fun things. Next week I'll worry about dating again, but for right now, I'm happy just being a single mom.
Moody-out of breath from balloon blowing
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And I spent my Friday night going to dinner with my son. Went to bed early so I could get up and work out while he slept.
Now we are cleaning the house.
No date this weekend - but lots of sanity here! LOL!!
Had a nice stay-in date with Hiker last night. :-) :-) :-)
He came over after I got the kids to bed, and brought over sushi. We had plans to camp out and watch the NBA game- Mavericks vs. Spurs, and lately it's become "our thing" to do so over some sushi. :-) It was fun, sharing sushi as I cheered for my Spurs, and he cheered for his Mavs! The kids must've heard us, because they woke up (or was never quite asleep to begin with) and came out to see what we were doing. LOL
Anyway, we had a nice time sharing sushi, small backrubs, some chocolate he'd also brought over, and then after the kids were finally to bed to stay- we had some nice snuggling time with a bit of seduction fun. hehe :-) It was just a great little evening together. I didn't even care that the Spurs lost (again) because I had my Hiker-man. :-)
Not much else planned the rest of the weekend but to hang out with the kids, watch the NFL playoff games, and maybe I'll get around to taking down the Christmas decorations and tree.
~shrimpy, hoping the NFL Dallas will win today just like the NBA Dallas did...
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Coco, I think the important thing is that you're doing things for you. You're not wallowing at home about not having a date, you're going to the gym. Who knows- you could meet someone there!
Also, as far as being stumped about meeting people, me too, sort of. I mean, that's why I do match- I live in a town smaller than small, and pretty much go to work, come home, hang with my friends (who are all happily partnered up) and lather, rinse repeat.... I don't really have time to purposely meet new people.
But I do have time to do the things I want to do, and hopefully I'll meet someone at the same time. If not, it isn't yet my time. Putting myself out there on match is just one more way to add people and experiences to my life- but certainly not all of it.
Moody, partied out
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If he can't see past that, he isn't for you, anyhow. You don't want a guy so shallow that instead of being glad you're working out and physically taking care of yourself, he's off-put by sweat and thinks you should look like a barbie doll at all times.
I don't know about you, but I very rarely look like a barbie doll. I certainly have faults, and flaws, but working out isn't a fault or a flaw, it's a wonderful thing. Go for yourself, but keep an open mind- you simply never know!
Moody, who is trying really hard to want to workout again
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