Frustrated, hurt and just plain.....

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Frustrated, hurt and just plain.....
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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:09am

Pi$$ed off.

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Registered: 11-20-2007
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:47am
Aw sweetie, that sucks. I'm sorry your plans got trashed. I know we say it over and over here, but you need to tell CM how you feel or he will never know. You don't have to be confrontational about it, and you can explain to him that you understand his position, but that you are hurt nonetheless. At least then he'll have something to go on next time exw pops her head out from under her rock, kwim?

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:07am
I am so sorry about your plans. I agree you need to talk to him because this ex wife stuff is gonna get to you after a while.
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 10:05am

OH, B, I am just BLUE for you.

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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 10:19am

Oh

Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 10:24am
Oh man that bites dear!
 
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Registered: 10-01-2007
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 10:35am

Oh man, that just sucks.

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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 10:57am

Ugh B DARN HIM! I want to bop him over the head right now!

At least you KNOW it's NOT you!

(((HUG)))

Winter Alison

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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 11:38am

(((((((B)))))))))


I KNOW you were looking forward to this weekend. It totally sucks when "life" steps in and throws a curve ball, doesn't is?? I'm so sorry..I know it mean a lot for you to go away with CM this weekend.


Can you make plans for next weekend? I have been finding out that things don't seem to happen on my desired agenda nmuch anuymore either...just too many vatiables that get in that way! I have to remind myself that time away together is just as valuable even if it is a few days or a couple weeks later.


It must be hard to see CM not stand up to the ex. Sounds like she calls all the shots as far as kids schedules go. I'm sure that CM feels in the middel and truly hates disappointing you. Just try to be supportive (and I KNEW that is a bitter pill to swallow..I've been there!) and offer advice for next time the ex over steps her control boundariies.


Hugs!! I hope that you two get some time away somehow this weekend.


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Registered: 02-15-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 2:18pm

THANK YOU All for the cyber hugs.