Frustrated with Religious Guy

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Frustrated with Religious Guy
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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:40am

I am so freakin frustrated with RG! I am on the back burner to a new house and an old car. Which I tell myself I should be ok with but am not. Afterall I have him on the back burner to my job, kids and education. But at least I try to make time for him. But the real frustrating part is I met two pilots that are asking me out and one old controller friend (different airport). So I am passing up doing fun stuff with fun people waiting for RG to finish his house and car and get off the fence.


Venting mostly but all input welcome.


Laurie ARGH!!!!

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Registered: 09-01-2006
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 10:37am
Ok Laurie ...it's time to hop down from the fence...2 pilots and a controller?....JACKPOT!
Rosecolouredspecs
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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 11:46am

I agree with Rose... plus i hate waiting on

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 12:08pm

"Which I tell myself I should be ok with..."


WHY *should* you be ok with playing second fiddle?


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Registered: 05-17-2008
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 12:29pm

Sorry for barging in uninvited here but I was just searching the forums about the same type of situation that I am also going through and ran into yours.


Like myself, you probably already know the answer to your questions and frustrations and the truth is that if he really wanted to be with you, he would MAKE the time to do so.

~No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent.~
  Eleanor Roosevelt

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 2:48pm

I keep in mind a phrase I read here on this board: It does not work if you are an option and s/he is your priority.

Mark

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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 7:02pm
welcome tsunami2008, from your post heading I thought you were going to say something along the lines that your significant other is too involved in church/religion. Your post states nothing that relates to religion. It sounds to me he is not totally interested in you, if he was he would make time for your. When someone always has excuses it is because the relationship is not their priority. I am not trying to be mean to you, I was in your same situation where my ex-boyfriend was always busy to spend extra time with me (long distance relationshp (45 mintues). Of course, I was busy too, a single-parent with two children, in which I was able to make time for my ex because he was important to me. I spent too much time waiting for him to be available. I highly recommend you go out with the men who asked you out and see what develops. Maybe later down the road if he is really interested he will come around. Not worth waiting for anyone, especially when it comes to a house/car - that says his mind and priorities are somewhere else. Keep us posted.

Anna


Anna

 

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 9:07pm
You have to move on. But how lucky that more are calling - will you go with them?
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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 3:51pm

I took everyones advice and met one of them in the park for a walk today. A nice guy and we had nice walk. But when I got back to my car I checked my cell and noticed that RG had called several times. Today we werent planning on doing anything and he made time for me anyhow. So we met for lunch and a walk. So now I am more confused. Sometimes he makes time for me and sometimes not.

So I am still in wonderland wondering what to do and how to handle it.

Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 07-14-2007
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 4:02pm

Sometimes he makes time for me and sometimes not.


That is a key statement, sometimes.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 4:58pm

I checked my cell and noticed that RG had called several times. Today we werent planning on doing anything and he made time for me anyhow.


I really do think that women with Other Things To Do are more desirable to men.

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