getting older and feeling it
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getting older and feeling it
| Wed, 03-12-2008 - 6:10pm |
OK So I found a grey hair. OK two of them. Bf pulled one out yesterday but I found one on my birthday of all days a few months ago. I am 34. I have gained ten pounds over the past year and look older, and have wrinkles!!! HOw can this be happening? I am slightly horrified and yet I think I might still be abel to save myself. So....I joined a gym again. I have been in in great shape before and I also have done bikram yoga all within the past five years so I hope my body remembers this. I have my first training session tomorrow to remind me. Wish me luck. I think it will be slightly embarassing to take the fitness test, admit I have a broken tail bone - you know, the usual.
Now to the wrinkles....mainly around my eyes a bit and on my forehead because I worry and squint a lot. I bought myself some sunglasses. DUH. I also invested in some different skincare that I have been looking at for months. I have good skin for the most part but I havent been really taking care of it. I dont always take off my make up properly ( I know, yuck but I get tired and just cant be bothered) and even though I do use moisturizer, I am not using anti aging stuff regularly. I need a routine. So I got that Clarisonic thing. That whirly brushy thing that looks like the toothbrush but is for your skin. I am psyched to try it. I dont know what anti aging products to look into but I figured I would take it one step at a time. A cleanser comes with the clarisonic and I have a day moisturizer from Olay with SPF and I will use that for now. I am OPEN FOR SUGGESTIONS!!!
I need to feel sexier and younger again. I dont really know when I let myself off the hook over here but I think some of the weight is love weight ( thats what I call it) SYB has gained weight too so we joined the gym together. I have never had a bf that went to the gym with me. I think it will help to do this together. We are also both really good cooks so I think we will be eating in more. The gym is actually walkable from our place and there are stores in between that have fresh fish and produce - really my favorite market, plus bank and pet store, etc. Very convenient.
Is anyone else feeling suddenly older and wrinkly? Misery loves company and all that. It is just rough to realize I am not that cute girl in my twenties anymore. Where did she go??
Now to the wrinkles....mainly around my eyes a bit and on my forehead because I worry and squint a lot. I bought myself some sunglasses. DUH. I also invested in some different skincare that I have been looking at for months. I have good skin for the most part but I havent been really taking care of it. I dont always take off my make up properly ( I know, yuck but I get tired and just cant be bothered) and even though I do use moisturizer, I am not using anti aging stuff regularly. I need a routine. So I got that Clarisonic thing. That whirly brushy thing that looks like the toothbrush but is for your skin. I am psyched to try it. I dont know what anti aging products to look into but I figured I would take it one step at a time. A cleanser comes with the clarisonic and I have a day moisturizer from Olay with SPF and I will use that for now. I am OPEN FOR SUGGESTIONS!!!
I need to feel sexier and younger again. I dont really know when I let myself off the hook over here but I think some of the weight is love weight ( thats what I call it) SYB has gained weight too so we joined the gym together. I have never had a bf that went to the gym with me. I think it will help to do this together. We are also both really good cooks so I think we will be eating in more. The gym is actually walkable from our place and there are stores in between that have fresh fish and produce - really my favorite market, plus bank and pet store, etc. Very convenient.
Is anyone else feeling suddenly older and wrinkly? Misery loves company and all that. It is just rough to realize I am not that cute girl in my twenties anymore. Where did she go??



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It's so bass-ackwrds and quite frankly scary that states legislators are making decisions on who gets to be a parent.
Wow - that is just awful to find out that your % of getting pregnant is so low. I can't believe how much the fertility drops after 40. I know at my age - 46 - it is probably nonexistent.
Do you meet many women who opt for IVF? And what about donor eggs with that?
The technology is just amazing.
I just sent this to every senator & governor. Of course, i SHOULD have had Soonee proof/edit it! lol
Working in a smaller community hospital, I honestly dont see TOO many IVF babies. Out of 70 a year, maybe 10 are. But there are many more on Clomid (minor fertility drug to get pg).
Yes, as i just posted below, i donated my eggs twice, in my early 20's. Dont i WISH i could have a couple BACK! Errrr!
That is well written! I never realized that infertility treatments cost so much. Is it to cover the R&D? Or are the treatments really that expensive?
And no, I can see how you don't want to go in the poorhouse with those - never to mention the costs that come afterwards with full time care. That is too hard by yourself. And too scary - at least to me - although with my age now - it really is not something I would consider.
I pray that your knight in shining armor has 4 kids to keep you busy - LOL!! Unless of course you could get LB to consider such a thing, eh? LOL!!
NO! lol
Well, I think life is what you make it - and as you can make it of course. Dara Torres is an olympic swimmer who is 41 and going for her fourth olympics. She is here locally so there is always a lot of press on her and I know several people who know her personally.
http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2007/11/18/sports/18torres.3.190.jpg
She is so driven and has not let herself get down by a few failures - like she has had 2 divorces. She has had a baby at 40 and is now full steam ahead to make it to the olympics again. She just broke the world record for the 50m freestyle - and that was her old record!!
I think attitude counts for a lot. Of course she is naturally competitive and very gifted as an athlete. But an inspiration to all of us. She works out 6 days a week and has no body fat!!
Edited to add - here is a video of her with her story - she is fantastic!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6FjZ5nTCXM
Edited 3/13/2008 10:28 pm ET by cl-west1745
I hope this helps. It really does sound harder than it is. When my hairdresser showed me this I was shocked. it really gave me a whole new option.
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