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Giving big guy the news
| Mon, 07-28-2008 - 7:15pm |
Well it did not go so well. I felt bad. He was upset. Wanted to know if there was anything he could do to change my mind. I wish it were diff he is a great guy. He texted me today to say he would like to hang out as friends but I think that is a horrible idea considering he has other feelings for me. Sigh...I feel awful.

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Ugh. I know- but you did the right thing. I'd email him and say you really enjoyed your times together but you feel it's best to not hang out. You can end the note just by saying you hope he finds ms right and thank him for being so kind to you.
Kuddos for doing what is right for you.
JH
BIG HUGS. I know it sucks to disappoint someone who is a genuinely good soul....
Being friends might be harder on him than he thinks. Especially when and if the day comes that you inform him you've met someone else.
Laurie
"He texted me today to say he would like to hang out as friends but I think that is a horrible idea considering he has other feelings for me."
Agreed.
There is nothing more you can do - cease all contact and in a day you will forget about it. And he will be free to find someone whose feelings are mutual for him.
Dating IS a jungle - and you both tried - there is always that risk that one will be liked while the other is not.
Life sucks sometimes doesn't it .......
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