A good Article on Why To Just Have Fun

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Registered: 03-19-2008
A good Article on Why To Just Have Fun
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Fri, 07-11-2008 - 8:26am

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/couplesandmarriage/articlecosmo.aspx?cp-documentid=8361787&GT1=32001

This explains it better why when we date we should just go out and have fun and forget the zeroing in on if he could be a potential partner. It says what I have been trying to say all along but says it a lot better.

Update on RG...I have not broken if off with him. I do plan to keep him as a friend. He is one of the best friends I have had and I dont want to lose that. He is just a sweet man and I wont say to him 'sorry we cant have a long term relationship, I dont want to be your friend anymore'. I just wont do it.

Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Fri, 07-11-2008 - 10:28am

I agree with the article 100%.


even though it was talking about someone with no children, never married... i think the general Get Out There And Enjoy These Years is still relevent.


well, i'm glad you are going to enjoy being RG's friend and not stress over it. That's the best attitude to have.... i hope in that same vein that you keep getting out there on your own so you can meet many more new friends.


Loonybunny