good guideline for knowing what's what

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Registered: 03-26-2003
good guideline for knowing what's what
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Tue, 01-04-2005 - 5:52pm

I like this...on the "he's just not that into you" line of thinking...

from this article

http://www.thestar.com/NASApp/cs/ContentServer?pagename=thestar/Layout/Article_Type1&c=Article&cid=1096280571806&call_pageid=970599119419

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And that's the angle Tuccillo covers — because she recognizes not everything is black and white, and none of us want to dump a great guy unfairly. So her approach is a little less extreme — applying Behrendt's simple philosophy to not-so-simple real-life situations.

"Right now I'm just trying to notice when a guy's behaviour starts making me feel bad about myself — when I start feeling like he's making me suffer," she writes. "A little pang of disappointment because he didn't call when he said he would? Well, that's okay; we'll see how it goes. A constant state of uneasiness because he's completely unreliable? That's bad. Tears? Really bad."

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Really good guide here I think...paying attention to our feelings when we're with someone...feelings don't just come out of the blue.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Fri, 01-07-2005 - 2:27pm

It would take a VERY special man to beat "no man at all". LOL....


What a GREAT statement Candi!!!

Becky

Becky

 

 

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