Good update

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Registered: 03-10-2008
Good update
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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 3:50pm

Wow so many posts while I was on vacation! This is a fast paced board if you do not check it daily!


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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: cutefont
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 11:09am

I think your update got lost in mix back there so I'm bumping it up.


Big Guy sounds nice! For me, a weight issue in a man would be a deal breaker if he did not care at all (ate unhealthy and was inactive and did not care) but if was conscious of it and trying to improve- I would be OK with that. I suppose it will be up to you and your chemistry between you two.


He wants to pay fopr a day at the spa? Wow! Yeah that does sound sudden and a lot. I'd probably feel wierd about that unless I had been dating him for a while. But what a nice thing to offer anyway. Keep us updated on the date Tuesday!


That is wierdb about the google address thing. I know you can find phone numbers but a map to your house? Scary! I wonder how and why the online guy knew your last name. That is very odd!!


~Pacific~
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Registered: 03-10-2008
In reply to: cutefont
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 11:36am
I guess the guy got my last name by just googling my first name and city and state. I suppose there are not that many...actually no other..Telissa's So it went all down hill from there! Scary that the online guy did that! I guess I have been known to look up some general info on a guy to make sure he is not married but I sure did not google map myself right to his residence! ugh
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Registered: 11-22-2006
In reply to: cutefont
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 11:43am

Yuck about someone testing the internet waters to see if they could invade all of your personal info. I think I would have responded "um great can you do two things for me?"
"sure. what?"
"Can you order me a pizza to be delivered over here and then can you go ahead and delete all of the info you just got on me without asking first?"
LOL

As for the big guy thing. I think for me I just like a guy and have in the past seen past weight stuff if I am really into him. It might take you a while to get to that point but I would be patient with yourself. He sounds like a gem otherwise and even if the spa thing is foreplay I would take it. I love that offer and even though I am fiercely independent I would still say yes if you see possibilities with this guy. It sets a marvelous precedent between you two where even though you can take care of you and yours, you will still allow someone to treat you occasionally if it makes them and YOU feel good. Nothing wrong with that! At least IMO there isnt. LOL....

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Registered: 03-10-2008
In reply to: cutefont
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 12:29pm
I am not used to having a guy offer to do things for me esp pay for a spa day. He went ahead and reserved the morning for me tomorrow before our date which almost makes it seem shady, but I know he has all good intentions about it. And let me tell you...my feet need a pedicure bad and I sure could use some pampering and a massage so I am gonna go...relax and ENJOY! He is so sweet and funny. And aside from the weight he really is an attractive man. He calls and makes me laugh...sends me little funny texts to encourage me through my long shifts!
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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: cutefont
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:35pm

Wow - good update!!

I think you will figure stuff out soon enough - maybe it is something fun for the two of you - or maybe he has a medical condition - or something from childhood that would explain it - or maybe he will tell you he has been busy and is working on it - who knows? But it is sounding better and better!