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Good weekend on this end and also a ?
| Mon, 10-27-2008 - 4:50pm |
Spent the weekend w/ Mechanic again, mostly just hanging out, with movies, nachos, wings etc. I joked with him "have you gained any weight since we started dating?" and he said "yes, its the damn nachos & wings" (he like salads lol) and he asked "have you?" and I said "A lady never tells. But hold that thought while I loosen the button on my jeans, they're killing me" And its true, I have gained prolly 5 lbs which I'm not loving. But onto the fun part of the weekend, it was good, almost too good. I'm wondering if we're settling into a "comfortable zone" already which I'd hate to happen really. Can anyone relate? We shouldn't be anywhere near this point. We love to spend time together, but I don't want to feel like we're playing house. OK, enough complaining about the great guy.

Funny you should mention "playing house" so early on in a relationship... I have recently had this conversation with some girlfriends who are 2-3 months into new relationships. It seems we've all just clicked into what we're calling Domestic Bliss Mode, instead of the "courting" we're used to. One of my friends (she's in her late 40's & her SO is in his early 40's) just went on their 2nd official date last weekend. They've been inseperable for nearly 2 months but hadn't really been on the next date since the first one (they were actually acquaintences for months prior to that first date). Anyway...
Does it mean we (as liberated, independent, successful women) have lowered our expectations and let these guys get away with not "dating" us first? Or does it mean we've found such
Dont feel too bad about the weight. I always gain when I am just starting out with a new guy. Its all the fun, food and good times. But dont worry it will go away. Just rearrange your fun times to include the gym or something.
Enjoy. BTW the comfortable zone is good too. I like it better myself.
Laurie