Goodbye - I'm going far, far, far, away!
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| Fri, 02-15-2008 - 9:51am |
Yes.... so sad. I got a call this morning from a drunk 35 year old man who told me he's going away. Not only away, but far, far, far, far away. For a long, long, long, long, long time and may never come back. Alex's Dad of course! The pathetic creature who blamed me that his girlfriend dumped him because of me.
Remember that Alex's Dad called me while I was in TEXAS freaking out that I had CALLED his girlfriend and when I told him I didn't and that he and his girlfriend are psycho, he put HER on the phone. I then finally decided to give her a piece of my mind for lieing to his entire family and a little hurt medicine to get her to wake up and smell the coffee!
So when he called, I asked him why he was blaming me for the break up between them? I said:

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I had the misfortune to date a man once who finally revealed to me that he was telling his 8 year old son that he should just move back to Argentina since his son was misbehaving and fibbing and his Mom didnt respect him. Found that out and dumped him. Who does that to a kid? And why isnt the kid allowed to make mistakes and misbehave without threats of abandonment? Geez. I met his exwife eventually at school ( yes, the Dad was a dad from my kids school - not doing that again!!)and she said she sooo wanted to warn me but knew I had to learn for myself because he is initially so handsome and charming. I dont find him handsome anymore with his weird behavior so it is hard to even write that. She literally looked at me and said sometimes she wished he would just disappear or maybe it would be better if he got run over since then it would be abandonment, but just grieving for her son. I just remember thinking WOW. But I actually understood what she was saying and I dont exactly blame her for those feelings. This guy STILL tries to contact me for some reason. By the end of our "relationship" he was stalking me around town, telling me he wasnt ready for commitment but then tracking my every dating move, trying to back me into corners about it but oh can we just be friends and can you watch the kids Thursday type of thing....lol. I finally had to cut all contact including playdates with the kids which was sad but necessary because he was going to somehow get in on that and make my life miserable. I met bf by then and just wanted to be peaceful and not have someone making things difficult. The kids are still friends but even to this day if I allowed a playdate, that guy would show up and make me uncomfortable. Even the ex wife said she understood my position completely. He is just way to manipulative and into blaming everyone else for his perpetual unhappiness.
So as horrible as it seems - maybe he WILL just leave you and your precious DD alone. I know this woman at school prays for that to happen to them.
ROFLMAO!! Yes, AND to top it off ladies remember when we were having a thread about
Do you think the scarecrow or the lion will be picking him up at the terminal???
You know Alex makes me feel a bit relieved because i said to my ex at one point I will never tell her what a low life you are she will figure it out for herself oneday. Although it breaks my heart when she calls out daddy now and again (and its often, shes 2, so every waiter, bus boy, guy in a coffe commercial on tv, ups driver etc...is daddy to her) I know that he will never change and the fairy tale of what her birth father is will fade and eventually one day maybe a man worthy of her adoration will come into our lives. until then...she can point to any given disney video and call out daddy all she wants.
LOL!!!! You have a good sense of humor!!
What a crazy call.
Edited to add: in some crazy way I think he is still in love with you - but I know you don't want to go there - you have explained that to me more than once!! LOL!!
Edited 2/15/2008 10:46 am ET by cl-west1745
Do you think the scarecrow or the lion will be picking him up at the terminal???
ROFLMAO!!! OMG TOOO FUNNY! I should ask Alex that question, but I don't want to play to light hearted on the subject. I think it's better, I just dont mention it again.
OMG! That reminds me! I forgot to add until you mentioned it, but:
I told him, I have NEVER ever lied to him. That he knows me well enough to know I have never been dishonest or done anything like call his girlfriend. That she lied and that he knows me since I was 14 and I never ever lied.
You know what he said!? "You did lie to me once. You lied that you were dating that English guy in London again."
I said, I didn't lie. You broke off our second engagement in germany because you got someone pregnant prior to your visit to see us in Germany. You broke up with me! Therefore, it wasn't your business if I was seeing someone or not. I was single and free to date anyone I wanted to.
Wow.. I feel that pain, disappointment and disgust
But can you believe that??? Over 4 years has passed and he's still jealous over the English guy I dated!?
See Im slowly coming to realize that woman is truly mans ruin...it is us that has bewitched his tiny tiny little mind and destroyed his tragic soul...ohhhhhhhhh we should all take a lesson from joan of arc...wheres the matches.....ohhhhh the humanity of it all
Was that dramatic enough?? LOL My ex told me when I found out on my DD 1st birthday that he was prescript pill junky that "it was the evil doctors that turned him into this" and when i caught him with hobag "it was me that pushed him into the arms of another woman" and even now i jinxed the ny giants for all those years...LOLOL I still maintain he never got over the fact that he had an incredibly small penis and this truly was a fate worse than being mauled by a pack of rabid badgers on a daily basis....oh a girl can dream cant she???LOL
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