Got a little crazy last night

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Got a little crazy last night
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Sun, 09-14-2008 - 10:47pm

hmm.... then he sent me this email tonight


For some reason...this song's going through my head today...

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 11:11pm

i figured i need to respond tonight and couldn't wait for advice so i sent this..


LOL.... a little hazy, huh? Crazy, i agree. but fun, too.


still could use advice on how to proceed... okay i feel almost mean by not just telling him about my crush but he's the guy. i can't make it any easier for him, right. Like alison said, if he's interested he'll ask me out. Maybe he's only getting a thrill with the flirting or maybe a thrill from the chase. Maybe i'm going a little nuts, but i'll try to enjoy each moment for what it is.. and not stress too much.


confidence. i tell myself.


oh and btw, i'm can't imagine the rumors that will fly around. i'm sure there will be backlash to pay... oh well.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 10:59am

I figured I'd respond but don't know that I will be any help.

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 12:33pm

Thanks.


well, i heard from him first thing this morning.... he said "oh yes definately fun" and also said "hope i didn't embarrass myself" etc. I sensed he was still waiting on me to say i was cool with it.


I wrote back and bit the bullet at little ... i asked him about his knee. I said i hope it did'nt hurt the next day considering he carried me. And said "That was hot by the way."


And he wrote back with a fairly lengthy email but this was the key part "I got really comfy there on the couch, just didn't want to wake you up when I got back."


So while i'm still waiting to see where this is going. I think it is going somewhere....


remember Jimmy the cook. I had a crush on him and kept thinking he would ask me out but he didn't. So i moved on but we remained friends. Months after the fact he told me he was kicking himself for never getting up the nerve to ask me out. He practically told me he loved me but just didn't know how to talk to me. And that he was sorry he missed his chance. I told him that yes, he did miss his chance but i will always value our friendship. Whimpy is just not attractive, ya know. Jimmy said he never got a clear signal from me but i think he was just whimpy.


MM and i are still in the flirty \ friendly zone and i'm not upset about it.. It's been about two weeks now since the backyard party and a little over a week since we've exchanged numbers. In his email he said he was going out of town tonight for work and will be gone at least thru the weekend. I bet he can still get email.... so i'll probablly send him something before the end of the week.


Loonybunny


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 12:59pm
You know chickie I really think now you just need to ask him out.