Guess verdict is in on the Jazz guy ....
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Guess verdict is in on the Jazz guy ....
| Thu, 08-30-2007 - 11:33pm |
... He MUST be gay. lol
No call. No email. Nada. Very weird. I am suprised, not dissapointed per say, b/c as I said, i wasnt even sure i liked him - BUT, why in the world would a guy spend SO much money (like more than $200) on a 1st date, go on & on about how beautiful I was, ask me on the date more than once "how do you think things are going? Can we do this again?", call my friend the next day to be sure i had a good time, SAY he would "take me out again" to her ... & not call?


It could be that he will call in a few more weeks. That is not all that uncommon - that all of a sudden a few weeks later they call out of the blue.
Don't beat yourself up. I bet the reason has nothing to do with you. It could be that he is talking to an exgf, working too much to want to bother dating, or if he is in the entertainment biz like you said - could be he is just too busy on a deadline project. And since it is OLD, he could have other people he is writing and seeing.
From what you have said, it is kind of surprising that he would say and do all that stuff and then not call again. But then again it is not - he is a MAN! (sorry to Mark and the others - that was said with a big giggle and I am sure you say about us too)
that totally sucks! But you know what?? You had a great bottle of wine and food! LOL
So he's a loser, his loss!
And I have to tell you!!! Those new pics of you and your daughter are FAB! Love them! You are so beautiful, any guy who doesn't chose a second date with you must be gay!
Well it happens. Who knows what goes through a man's brain, if anything.
Love the new pictures.
No apologies required for calling him a man. I am too much in my head thinking rather than letting my emotions take a hold of me usually but I can imagine getting carried away in the moment and saying/doing things if I like the woman a lot at the time. Later on I might think otherwise or think of the longer term possibilities.
I tend to agree with Rebecca on Jazz guy, i.e. he's playing the field and looking for someone to have sex with.
For me, I have met several nice women who either they or me want to be just friends and that I would like to continue to see but I have not called them back because I've been busy. My motivation goes down for I continue to seek out someone who would be more than just a friend.
Mark
I agree. Great pics. Daughter takes after mom.
What goes through a guy's brain? You just have to go lower to find out :-P.
Mark
THIS is most hilarious!! We love having a man around the house.
And this:
"I tend to agree with Rebecca on Jazz guy, i.e. he's playing the field and looking for someone to have sex with."
along with the motivation statement...
Those speak volumes. You are helping us decipher the code!!