Guilty, Even When Proven Innocent

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Registered: 09-25-2007
Guilty, Even When Proven Innocent
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Tue, 09-25-2007 - 4:54pm

Hello Everyone,


I am a single mother of twin 9 yr old girls and I have been lurking here for quite some time.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 5:05pm

Oh Purple!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 5:18pm

Happy Birthday Sweetie and thanks for your most kind comments on our board. Glad you wrote us.

Now, honey, give yourself the best birthday present ever - DUMP him and find one who adores you and does not question every breath or hair out of place. I think he has gone way over the edge on trust and control issues and will get worse over time. It is all well and good that he is getting help - but do you really want to stick around for however long that will take if it even works at all? Because to me, his ridiculousness over office emails, which everyone knows to be the classic email jokes and articles that get forwarded, is sick - that is over the top. He is the type of guy who would lock you up inside the house for fear of you going to the store. Your inner bells and whistles are going off for a reason.

So glad you wrote. I am sure the others will chime in with great advice - as they always do. Good luck and keep us posted!!

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 6:47pm

First of all, welcome!


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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 7:12pm

OMG Purplelibra!!! The actions of

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 08-10-2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 8:19pm

Happy Birthday!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 11:57pm

Hi Libra,

Welcome to the board and happy birthday!


Today should be a day of fun and celebration- not figuring out how you're going to "defend" the gifts you have received from friends and coworkers.


Think about that.


End it with him and don't look back.



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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 11:28am

Happy birthday (+1) Purple!


You've been patient - more than paitent.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2007
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 2:10pm

Hello Everyone,


Thank you all so much for your responses.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 5:11pm

Purple...Happy birthday, a day late!


I just read your post and the responses. Great advice form everyone here. I hope you were able to have a happy birthday afterall, regardless of "B".


I was wondering, do you know why he is so insecure? Did he have these trust issues before you started dating him, or is it something that happened in your relationship early on? I am assuming that it is

~Pacific~
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 09-27-2007 - 5:13am
Honestly? I dont know HOW you have stayed with him that long! OMG, i would be a LUNATIC if someone had that immense sense of distrust for me.

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