"GULP" I did it...and im sick...

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Registered: 03-11-2004
"GULP" I did it...and im sick...
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 9:29am

Sooooo its been a year and im feeling good about everything. With some prodding from family I think im ready to really put myself out there...so i paid for a 1 month (ouch! cant believe i actually committed to it) subscription to match.com. I only signed up for a month because im just testing the waters right now, maybe im not ready but how am i going to knwo...right???


WE SHALL SEE....I will keep you all posted


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Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 10:32am

Good for you!


I'm really excited to hear stories...

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 11:15am
Oh I can so relate.
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 11:20am

yeah it really struck a cord with me the other night when my mom said i dont want you to get used to be alone, and I said I like being alone and she pointed out that yes its good to stand on your own to feet its not good to shut yourself off from possibilities...so cant hide anymore


We'll see...so far theres nothing, I mean NADA that has even stirred any curiousity in me. I think im being to synical. I guess im just tired of being angry and bitter...time to leave it behind and move forward


Good luck to you to Savannah...Moon you know

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 11:36am
I can't wait to hear about your new OLD adventures! They will come out of the woodwork and the cool thing is you will get to be selective. So did you complete your profile?
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 11:40am
yeah i think so...its actually an old one from a few months ago...i think i sound pretty jaded so maybe an update is in order. I just went back and looked and i dont have anything "fun" about me...so maybe later on i will fix that part. Im just really second guessing myself about the entire OLD thing...ugghhhh
About my life and what I'm looking for

Id like someone to appreciate and not anticipate. Someone funny, smart, politcal opinions but not an extremist. Someone with a sharp wit but not intentional at someone elses expense. Compassionate about the environement and welfare of other living creatures. Someone who likes dinner in but wants to show off their date. Someone to inspire and to inspire me. To be the center of your attention without being smothered. To adore someone and to be adored back. Someone with goals and a purpose but not with losing site of the smaller moments that make life really special. Someone to talk with and be friends with. Someone who tells you your days events matter and to care about their day. Someone loyal and trustworthy as loyal and trustworthy as I am. Someone who nows the value of family...its the most important thing in life and should always come first.




Edited 9/11/2008 11:44 am ET by mom_little_star
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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 12:07pm

I like the profile. I agree, you could spice it up just a bit by adding your wit and humor or adding some really cool fun things you like to do. You're full of life and spunk, so let some of that show!


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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 1:19pm
My mom said the same thing to me about being so worried about me, because I work at home and so far away from all my friends. She said from listening to me, I just seem to not really want to do anything anymore or go out. I'm getting to be happier alone then with someone that I feel wastes my time. However, like I said earlier in the week, I'm not ready to give up. I believe I'll meet the right person at some point.
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Registered: 04-30-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 2:33pm
You struck a cord here with me. I think I have gotten used to being alone and that is not the "natural" state for humans. We as social creatures are supposed to want to find a mate...not curl up with the dog and read every night for 6 years! I will look for your posts to see how it is going. I may then delve back into OLD again. Last time I only lasted 3 days on Match. What a CHICKEN! Good luck, Smiles.
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 3:30pm
I added some more but i come off as a stuffy uptight B...see no good...should ask for my money back LOL
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 3:32pm
You know...I put a line in my profile that im not looking for "prince charming" all though the charming part is ok, and that im not looking to be rescued...just looking to see what can happen when two people meet...GAWD i sound like a freakin drip...LOL

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