Had court, AGAIN, today ....
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Had court, AGAIN, today ....
| Mon, 02-26-2007 - 11:14am |
I guess i got SOMEwhere today, but not very far.
I called my atty office Thurs to confirm court WAS today. I get there, my atty said "Well, we werent on the docket, but we were SUPPOSED to be, so i got it put on".


R, so sorry about all of this nonsense. I'm really not surprised by it, I guess, but I am sorry you have to go through it. The prgoress may be in the form of baby steps, but it is progress.
Keep your chin up, and keep doing what's best for Averey- she'll always remember that!
Moody, so glad I don't have these issues
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Sorry, R, that sounds like such a frustrating day. I think everyone who got to talk to you today realizes the hopelessness of having to deal with your exh.
I don't think it is in your favor to deny him visitation - the state looks strongly against you in that regard. BUT with that said, I would not go out of my way to make it any easier for him - meaning I would not be dropping her off or reminding him to come and get her. I would totally resolve myself of that and quite frankly hope he shows up less and less unless he is in the mood to be a good and nurturing father. He has a lot of anger from your divorce and you are not going to be able to change that - it is his problem.
I guess only you know what you should expect to get with regards to all of your points. I think if I was you I would demand the money - but I would probably want to work more in the order for full custody with supervised visitation rather than demand he sees a psysch anymore since he refuses to go - I think this might have been what the atty meant by do what YOU have to do.
I guess my best advise is to tell you to calm down for a few days and put you and your DD first and do what you have to do. But not to wear yourself down to make the courts make him be a good citizen - because no one but him is ever going to do that.
We all offer you such a big hug. It does sound like you have everyone on YOUR side - and that is a good thing. I hope your day goes somehow better for you.