Handled well---I think

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Handled well---I think
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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 5:13pm

Okay, so I caved a little.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 5:23pm

I think going to your friend's house is a great idea!


It's not too bad that you answered your phone - at least you told him to leave you alone and didn't jump at his offer for lunch. Keep going girl, you're doing a good job!


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Registered: 03-30-2008
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 8:12pm

GL on getting him out of your life.

I'm fairly new here...so forgive me for asking--is this your ex-H/SO or an ex-BF? Don't beat yourself up for answering...I think we've all had backslides. The important thing is your recognize you want to change the situation and you keep working on achieving that.

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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 8:39pm

I'm gonna give you a little grief! Ok, you answered the phone, don't do it again. That is why we have voice mail. Secondly, AWESOME that you don't him to leave you alone, but totally NOT awesome that you even let your mind wander to a potential lunch. You said, LEAVE ME ALONE, this means... NO CONTACT.

Stick with it and go to your girlfriends Wednesday night and have that sleep over. If it doesn't stop, threaten to have him reported as a stalker. This guy needs to LAY the heck off and get out of your life! What a slime ball.

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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 10:07pm

I have a song that I love and I think the lyrics fit well for you situation. It's by Kaskade and it's called Angel On My Shoulder:

Its time you see, the love you give
Is killing me, and I wanna live
This isn't right, you search your soul for life

So I turned and left, I told myself I can be as bad as someone else, but I find it hard when an angels on my right

But you held my hand and took me right back down to hell, I have an angel on my shoulder but a devil in my hand (X 2)

Won't you go, no means no
Your dirty life is like a one man show
You're a night attack, you turn the light to black

So I turned and left, I told myself I can be as bad as someone else, but I find it hard when an angels on my right

But you held my hand and took me right back down to hell, I have an angel on my shoulder but a devil in my hand ( X 2)

and here's the YouTube link if you want to listen to it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfYfSiwlvVI


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Tue, 10-21-2008 - 1:41am
Definitely go to your friends. I know nothing makes me stronger than my girlfriend Zara when I wanna be weak. Don't go to lunch. Don't encourage his behavior and don't let him have the control. (((HUGS)))
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Tue, 10-21-2008 - 8:12am

Definately go to your friend's house and if you can bring a different cell phone for your kids to be able to get hold of you and he can't!!!!

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Tue, 10-21-2008 - 7:44pm

Hey all,


Thanks so much for all your advise, it helps me tons!!

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Tue, 10-21-2008 - 9:29pm

Alrighty tighty, I've offered to do this before to a chick