Has my prince come???

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Has my prince come???
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 9:41am

Ok so its just an update on the prince but its a doosey...He called last night (not home yet) and they are wrapping up this trip. SO the boys all went out for dinner last night and had a few to many cocktails and he was feeling NO PAIN let me tall ya. It didnt annoy me either which is a shocker when carrot pants drank I couldnt stand to be near him...maybe because he wasnt a nice drunk, hed often pick on me and make fun of me. On his birthday he told the bartender he wanted to go home with her and leave me in the bar...i laughed and said what would a 21 year old girl want with you...didnt that come back to haunt me LOL Any way back to the prince he said we've got some things to discuss when i get home. I said like what? He said like us and I stopped him and said im a package now. And he said yes I know and I said along with some baggage thats a real scumbag sometimes...he said i know that too. So i felt really good on that one. Then he put one of the guys on the phone and he said Hi melissa...Ive heard alot about you. I hear youre quite beautiful...can I telll you I felt like I was back in high school..LOL So the prince got back on and we proceeded to say good night and I told him to call me tomorrow and he said ok...I miss you sooo much and I love you. GAAHHHH WHAT WHAT WHAT...I played it cool and said ok just be safe tonight and call me tomorrow.


So while Im flattered and know he was feeling pretty good it still struck me. It wasnt in a good way either..it was in a holy crap im scared to death way am I ready for a relationship? Am i ready to expose

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 10:24am
If someone told me he loved me before we even had a chance to develop a relationship I would be running for the hills!! I would not even involve my kids until we had been dating at least 6 months exclusively and things were serious.
If he is currently deployed he may be very lonely. Remember that YOU need to control the accelerator on things. If you do start dating there is a good message board on ivillage called Dating a Miitary Man.
Stephanie
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 10:26am
Don't forget, they DATED FOR YEARS. This isn't some new guy. He obviously never got over her.
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 10:28am

We have a history...lived together for 5 years. He was my true first love ad i really believe my only true love. Ive held every othr relationship up to him.


Hes not military either but he travels quite a bit for work but thanks for the suggestion anyway.


:0)


M

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 10:29am
Oh, I didn't realize that! I was thinking they hadn't even met yet. LOL!
Steph
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 10:34am
Good grief if a guy I hadnt even met dropped the big L on me Id be moving to a new state! LOL
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 10:36am
Keep us posted! When will you see him?
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 10:51am

He flies home on Wednesday and hes already said we are going to dinner on Sat night to Bobby Flays (im so excited to be going out with an adult

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 11:26am

Melissa, you are both soooo vulnerable right now, for obvious reasons.

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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 11:35am

Hey Melissa - He sounds like a great person who

Rosecolouredspecs
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 11:47am

Hi Rose,


I was just young and we were at different places in our lives. After we broke up I traveld quite a bit and lived all over and really able to find me. Whenever there was something bad in my life I was able to (not saying I always did but it was there if need be) to just pick up the phone and call him. Hes always been my rock.


I fully plan on tkaing things really really really slow. He knows me better than I know myself sometimes. We were talking about something and I made a comment about not trusting anyone and he came back with well yu never did...oooofffffaaaa. So if anything its going to be a nice possible start to something or old friends having a nice dinner. And let me tell ya its been a long time since i had a nice dinner


M


Oohh and yes I got a really cute top for with the shoes...its the pants area im still working on LOL


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