HC Update.. wow, I'm an idiot.
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| Wed, 07-30-2008 - 1:09am |
Lesson learned, that sometimes it shouldn't be all up to the guy to make all the moves and phone calls. Ugg!
My cell phone is god aweful, and I know this... so HC's reason for the no call on Sunday makes perfect sense, and not only is he 100% in the clear, I'm liking him even more and more now.
So, the girls keep asking about him. Blah, I know.. the downside of having them involved. They keep asking if he's going to join us when we go here or there. So I decided maybe I need to give this guy a second chance, or at least see what happened on Sunday. Because he really was a great guy!! So, I sent him a text and got an immediate call back earlier tonight. '
He called not once, but twice on Sunday and left msg's. This is no where near the first time that my phone has done this, and when it does it will do it for a long period of time. I remember thinking it was weird that my phone didn't even ring all day on Sunday. He was actually really bent out of shape about it, upset that I never called him to see what was going on. He came right out and asked me what was going on, if I was even interested in getting to know him more, and if I was trying to play games. I was like uhh.. I think you're great, and when I thought you ditched me Sunday my feelings were really hurt!
So anyway... we're focusing on trying to spend some time together now. I swore to him no games, but I'm not sure if he believes me. I must admit.. his blunt honesty and the fact that he was bent out of shape about this really made me dig him even more lol. He said again that he just thought we were all awesome and really wanted to get to know me more. Awe. He also apologized for being flirty.. he thought that maybe he scared me off just wanting one thing. I was like noway, I love your flirtiness it makes me laugh. Example: I leaned over to get something and my chest went up against his arm and he was like wait, no, go back, do that again. LOL.. made me laugh. But he's never made a move out of line in any way. Just sweet nice simple kisses goodnight so far.
I'm afraid after tonight he may be getting most of my focus. Medic is going out of town for a week starting Thursday.. and he's been real pissy and pushy which is turning into a major turn off. So we shall see!!!
Wow... I really need to learn to stop running from this fear of rejection I have. I felt like I was being rejected Sunday so I refused to chase. Lesson learned.. sometimes maybe we should pursue just a bit.

LOL - you don't happen to have Alltel do you??
Awwww- well, at least now you know!!!
You should give HC your email, pager, house phone, work phone, fax number, facebook... that way if he calls your cell and doesn't hear back, he can still get a hold of you ! LOL! :P
I'm glad you got it sorted out.
You know it may have been a blessing is disguise...you know how guys even more interested and see your value more clearly when you are not available right when they call?? lol!!
Have fun at your next get together.. I'm looking forward to the update!!