He cares!!

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Registered: 10-10-2007
He cares!!
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Mon, 03-31-2008 - 4:21pm

So this new guy from eharmony (the law school student) is great...I won't meet him until Friday (he is taking me out for my birthday) but he is so perfect so far!

April

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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 4:47pm
This one sounds good! Keep us posted!!
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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 4:56pm

It has been my experience that there is a danger of creating false intimacy before meeting.

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Registered: 04-17-2003
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 5:04pm
Sounds good so far! Where are you going on your date???
Steph
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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Mon, 03-31-2008 - 6:09pm

He sounds really considerate, April. That is nice! And as for his voice,are there sparks in your conversations?


~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-10-2007
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 10:29am

He is from out of state originally and just moved here so I sent him some ideas for dinner--at first he said he would just leave it up to me but I hate being responsible for that (even on my birthday) and I'm glad I did--my favorite option was a seafood place and he is allergic to shellfish!

April

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Registered: 04-17-2003
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 10:35am
April, PLEASE think twice about letting him pick you up at your house. If he really wants to go out with you, he will find his way. He can even drive there ahead of time to make sure he knows where it is.
Steph
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Registered: 10-10-2007
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 10:39am

He has a very upbeat voice and he is very funny.

April

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Registered: 10-10-2007
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 10:48am

I know and I am being cautious.

April

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Registered: 04-17-2003
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 10:52am
I wasn't worried about him stalking you. I was worried about you being alone in a car with a total stranger. At least give someone his cell phone number and where he lives and/or goes to school. Check in when you get to your destination and when you leave. Sorry to be a mother hen, but I do know someone that did have a bad experience being picked up at their house.
Steph
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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 10:54am

I would urge more caution - a first meeting from OLD is a first meeting from OLD in my opinion, regardless if it is your birthday or any other holiday.

Ted Bundy was a law student.........

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