He is dating someone else....

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2003
He is dating someone else....
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Wed, 03-16-2005 - 1:02pm
So this guy that I have a had major flirtation with for about a year, but more seriously ever since I divorced just told me that he is seeing someone. The relationship is about a month old. I heard through the grapevine that he has a crush on her for a long time. So much for thinking at some point I would have a chance. Oh well.
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Registered: 05-25-2004
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 1:08pm

That is always a big bummer and let down when you like someone and then find out they like someone else.

I dug through to see the original story/post
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlsolomother&msg=7980.1&ctx=128

I guess you have to look at the bright side that it is no loss to you since he was mean on that one occassion.

The next one will be better!! Keep us posted.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2003
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 1:13pm
Yeah I know. And the truth is, he doesn't know my true feelings about him so I don't feel like a complete idiot. All he knows is that I flirted with him and as we all know flirting is nothing big. Still can't help but think that he likes me to, maybe not as much as the girl he is with now, but when we lock eyes it seems intense. I don't know maybe it is just me feeling the intensity. Hard to tell.
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Registered: 05-25-2004
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 1:43pm
You did well to hold back your emotions!! And you never know what the future may hold!! I wish you only the very best for that!!