He does seem to like me
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| Thu, 04-19-2007 - 11:44am |
Well he called me on Tuesday to check in for next weekend. When I saw him on Sunday, he said he wasn't sure whether or not he would be in town next weekend but knew my kids would be with their dad. He thought he may be going out of town to a coach's workshop with some other coaches from his school. He called to say that he was indeed going and would be leaving on Friday. He said he would like to see me and was planning on leaving early so that he would at least be able to take me to lunch. Nice thoughtful, but he is waivering on the too busy side. He has been out of town practically every weekend since Easter. That is a lot in my book.
He calls to make plans but never to just talk. He clearly likes me and is polite, but not sure I'm feeling it. I may or may not see him this weekend. If he doesn't get back in time to see me, I will definitely say next. Even if I see him I may decide to pass. Not feeling the spark. I think he may end up being a friend and not anything more. I'm not really looking for "the one" but no sense in wasting anyone's time. It is better to do it sooner rather than later.
I may sign up for Match and see how that goes. Or maybe I'll meet someone when I go out with my girlfiends this weekend.
We shall see.
Priscilla

Hmmmm... I'm new to this whole single life thing...but I have to ask....are you sure that he is NOT married? Sounds like he likes to line things up with you, but has no time to chat and is "unavailable" quite a bit....
.....But I also have to jump in and say --- Easter was just two weeks ago! I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet...
Rose
If you have not agreed to exclusivity I would try to keep dating other people.
The good is that he is calling to make plans ahead of time and has interest in you. The cons are that he is not around that much - the constant travel would not sit well with me. But maybe that is a seasonal thing or something that won't go on forever?
Only time will tell you. For sure I would not want to be tied down yet.
And you are smart as you say in the next message that you don't want him over yet after the kids go to bed.
Absolutely no exclusivity yet. That would be way too soon. We haven't even really kissed yet.
I will continue to date others and just not shut the door yet on this one.
You have great advice.
Priscilla
ps - love your OLD adventures