He PAID for dinner!
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| Wed, 07-02-2008 - 12:35pm |
Ok so I had yesterday off and went on a date with a very nice guy. HE PAID for dinner to boot so that gets him bonus points right off the bat! We joked around and shared mutual dating horror stories. I know some people do not discuss such stuff with dates but he asked..I shared and we had some great laughs about it all! We have another date planned for tomorrow since it is my other day off and I am childless still until the 4th! I really think I like him and he is good looking BUT he is a bit bigger than I would normally go for. I am a big girl and could stand to lose a ton or two so it seems funny that I would be a bit put off by a guy who is heavy but really I just a tad. Its like if it ever got to the intamacy part it just would be odd. Two fat people can not have sex! They just bounce off each other. ...ok ok I am just kidding but...I dunno. I just am not sure I would want to see him with his clothes off. I guess I will take it slow and feel it all out a bit more and see how the next date goes!

OMG Telissa,
I swear he was staring at them...tossing stuff across the table to land between them! I was like Hello are you twelve?
ROFL!!! Are you serious?!? He actually did THAT?!? Yikes, what are these men thinking of?!??? But then again, maybe I need to get his number. Maybe he can toss a couple of grapefruits my way (is he a good shot?) and I can actually HAVE a chest for a change...
Telissa, you're a riot! These dating stories are priceless! (the board's gotta consolidate them all into a book, I tell ya...)
~shrimpy
It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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You are right - we do have to put all the dating stories into a book. They are enlightening. If I didn't have this board I would think there is something wrong with me - but alas - it is universal.
Telissa, sorry you had to be the centerpiece for the dinner - but not in a good and comfortable way. That guy was an idiot.
I like the sounds of the one that treated you to dinner, though. Keep the stories and good times coming. So far all I have are a few winks. There was one who said something stupid in his profile - when you are 17 you want to get laid, when you are 27 you want a 17 year old, when you are 37 you want to be in the mile high club and when you are 47 you want to take a company IPO and now he is taking 2 of them IPO - geez - do you think that would make me want to date him? I think rather it makes me want to DELETE him - which I did.
when you are 17 you want to get laid, when you are 27 you want a 17 year old, when you are 37 you want to be in the mile high club and when you are 47 you want to take a company IPO and now he is taking 2 of them IPO
LOl Who is he trying to impress- other guys? Marketing to the wrong target market for sure.
And OP, throwing stuff at your chest- too much. Yes, he's got the maturity of a 12 yr old.
QB
Tossing things across the table to get them to land inbetween your BOOBS??? What a jerk!!
The other guy sounds great!!
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Ok sorry, I just had to LAUGH!
I think the "easy to get along with part" is important. That is a good point, Alison! And you are right that there just needs to be a little something that is a spark of attraction - and that doesn't mean looks to me either - usually it is kindness, a smile or a good sense of humor. Or just being polite. Something positive, you know?
The guy throwing food down a shirt is just over the top out of control. I wonder what his profile said? Cutefont - do you dare to share that with us?