He passed the witch test

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Registered: 08-08-2007
He passed the witch test
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Thu, 06-12-2008 - 1:50pm

The spell is broken for sure.


.....As I expected, broomhilda called BE yesterday. Somehow I knew she would try. He told me upfront, and he told me specifically what he said. He reiterated his stance, and that she cannot call him anymore. She of course protested and threw in a healthy portion of guilt on him and when that didn't work she tried to get pity from him saying she really has few friends at all. He kept pretty quiet but only said this is the way it is...and good bye. She said fine I will never call you again.


Ahhhh poor thing. She should look into the Broom Crafters Meet-Up group. They have a huge party on Halloween. OK- I'm done bashing. Really! She is GONE.


I talked to BE a bit last night. We disc golfed then had a few minutes to gab. He said that a tiny 1 percent (insane) part of him might have been allowing her to be in touch with him in case we did not work out..he's have something to fall back on. I was like eww! I said BE, even if you and I do not work out..you can do SO MUCH BETTER than her!


He said that's true but that he can't do any better than me. (insert my big grin).


~Pacific~
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Thu, 06-12-2008 - 1:54pm
This is HUGE progress Pacific!!
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 2:03pm

Exactly, Isys-


Even if I was not a factor, he still deserves so much better than her and her negativity and drama! I don't think he meant that he would have taken her up as a partner, but maybe just as someone to comiserate with in his sorrow if that happened. But still....he can get much more positive, healthy

~Pacific~
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 2:57pm


OK Pac...i swear i started singing the song in my head...LOOK its you in the middle being greeted by all the munchkins because shes dead...LOL


Big Props to BE...glad hes being the stand up guy you deserve...no keep singing it to yourself :0)

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 3:08pm

YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH


nice work Pac!!!!

mom_uk2socal

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 3:16pm

LOL!!!!


I love the picture. I'm putting that up in my office!!! hahaha!!!


Thanks for the smiles and the high five :o)

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 3:18pm

Thanks!!!


It feels good to be validated. Not that I had to have his actions validate me but dang it feels good anyway :o)

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 09-21-2006
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 3:18pm

It's great BE followed through, and admitted there was a back burner aspect from his side. You handled that well. I wouldn't celebrate yet, though. This kind of person does not give up easily. She'll try again, BE will have to simply ignore her calls, not answer. Hopefully, he has caller ID.

QB

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 3:22pm

She used to call him at work and he does not have caller ID from work. And her home phone alwways said restricted anyway so the calls would come in unidentifyable.


But I agree with your caution- I don't see her giving up completely, until she finds herself someone else to latch onto.

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 3:33pm

Oh and did I mention she's called his dd twice now to inform her with a royal b*itch I am? Nice huh?


~Pacific~