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Is he for real???
| Wed, 10-15-2008 - 1:22am |
Well I got to the bottom of the whole lotion thing! GRRR is what I have to say now! This is what he said...and I do not like it at all! He said...HIS EX WIFE smells me on him and asks a lot of questions. UH...why is she that close? seriously? Bath and Body works lotion is NOT that darn strong! Secondly...and his point is? They are divorced....what should it matter? All he has to say to her is that its none of her buisness and not answer her questions right?

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Wow! So sorry to read this. He needs to grow a pair and remember those two little letters & what they mean: EX!
Some guys are so used to the control that their wives had on them that they are still under it after they are divorced. How long have they been divorced? I wouldnt really worry about it. I would just tell him that his ex is not part of your relationship and is a person of the past. He needs to step up to the plate and tell his ex that its simply none of her business.
I dated a guy who's ex wanted the divorce and still wanted the benefits of being married to him too. It took her a few years to realize that he was no longer her's anymore. Until she did she was a pain in our side. Sorry to say this. But the sooner he breaks free of her the better off you two will be.
Laurie
Are you sure she is his ex wife? I read your first post, and now this post....and something is saying he is still married....or maybe even "separated but reconciling"......
OH! WHAT the hell?????????????????? Unbeleivable! What the heck did he THINK you would feel like when he talks of his XW??? Does he have kids with her. He had BETTER ... not that THAT is an excuse for his issues. But at least a reason he is still in contact with her.
Ok - so - here is where you are:
1. You got laid
What is it with the leash that men have with their X's? They still seem to have this extreme hold on them. It's sad.
If he is concerned about his ex wife smelling "you" on him then he is not ready to be dating. He's still not over his ex. Plain and simple. He is a player. Move and take your lotion with you! You time is worth much more than his stupid player games.
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