He wants me to stay for the weekend

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Registered: 01-08-2004
He wants me to stay for the weekend
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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 2:43pm
I have been dating a wonderful man. I left an abusive exhusband 3 years ago. My new guy is wonderful thoughtful loving etc... I introduced him to my kids several weeks ago just the way their therapist told me. They love him. This weekend I met his son who is 12. He is a terrific kid and we all had a great time. My guy calls and tells me that his son would like me to come for the weekend. He also has a 16 year old daughter I have not met yet. I am a little anxious as to the sleeping situation. I could definitly see myself with this guy but do not want his kids to think badly of me. On top of it, my kids will be with their Dad. My guy said he could come over and spend part of the weekend with me but his son really wants me to go to their house. What do y'all think?
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 4:02pm

Stick with your comfort level.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 7:22pm

Hi Bupcie - welcome to our board.

I agree with Jennie - you have to stick to your comfort level. If you want to meet his kids that is okay - but I would keep it short and sweet and not stay overnight in front of them.

Hope you stick around - keep us posted.

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