He wants to move in now! Yikes!
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He wants to move in now! Yikes!
| Wed, 02-06-2008 - 4:46pm |
Hi ladies! If you remember me, I posted back in December about a great guy I started up a relationship with around Thanksgiving. I was in a dilemma about whether or not he would stay the night since I could not find a sitter for my daughter. I finally found a sitter and had a great weekend. He's been back a couple of times since then and has stayed

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Best of luck to you!
slightly uncomfortable?
Whoa!!!! I think its time to SLOW DOWN here, both of you.
Stephanie
DON'T DO IT - I did this twice after only a few months, and paid a huge emotional and financial price for my bad judgement and jumping in too quick.
mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16
***UPDATE FROM LAST NIGHT****
Thank you all for your responses! I called him last night and he said that he was excited about coming to move in with me. To think of it, he actually left quite a few of his things over my house after his last visit, which makes me wonder - Was he planning this all along? I have done somewhat of a background check on him, but I can only do so much since I don't know all of the places his baseball career has taken him. I've met his family, and they seem to be really nice. But....
I told him that I felt like it was rush rush, and his reply was, "Well, I need sort of an in-between place to stay where I can still coach this team in Miami, and travel back and forth, and you're in a good location. We've also been talking about marriage, and we've been talking about planning our lives together for the last few months, and what sense does it make to move to another state away from you? So what's the problem?" And I said, "Well, I have a daughter and I just feel like it's too soon."
And he says, "Well, we'll talk about that when I get there. In the meantime,
When I lived in , I met a guy on a ski lift on opening weekend.
Yikes! This guy seems to be trying to totally manipulate you.
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