He wants to move in now! Yikes!

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He wants to move in now! Yikes!
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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 4:46pm

Hi ladies! If you remember me, I posted back in December about a great guy I started up a relationship with around Thanksgiving. I was in a dilemma about whether or not he would stay the night since I could not find a sitter for my daughter. I finally found a sitter and had a great weekend. He's been back a couple of times since then and has stayed

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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 1:41pm

Please, please, please take head to what the other posters have written.

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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 1:44pm

Soonee, some of your stories just crack me up.

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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 1:59pm

Well, to his credit he was a very respectable skier.


(KIDDING!

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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 2:28pm

I was thinking the same thing! Soonee, your story made me laugh out loud! But it really brought home a good point! You're right. It's amazing how much some women are willing to bend to these men and not pay attention to clear red flags!


I will talk to him tonite and tell him definitely no way. He's been pretty convinced that I'm "The One" since the day he met me, but I just need to be careful. It almost angers me how he so coyly moved some of his things into my

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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 3:18pm

I think it's fine that you asked your daughter for her opinion, it let's her know that you DO take her feelings into consideration.


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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 3:25pm

I agree!

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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 3:52pm

LOL! You're funny, soonee!


About letting him go completely? I need to, but it is going to be hard, Allison. It touches my heart that he seems to be really good with my daughter and that she responds positively to him. And you know that our children are

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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 4:07pm

I know it's hard when they seem to be good with the kids, but at the same time- do you want your daughter having HIM as a role model for a man???


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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 4:14pm

"Well, we'll talk about that when I get there. In the meantime,

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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 5:22pm
He is nice to your daughter because he is using you!!! Kick his butt to the curb and don't look back. You AND your daughter deserve alot better than him!
Stephanie