He wants to move in now! Yikes!

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He wants to move in now! Yikes!
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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 4:46pm

Hi ladies! If you remember me, I posted back in December about a great guy I started up a relationship with around Thanksgiving. I was in a dilemma about whether or not he would stay the night since I could not find a sitter for my daughter. I finally found a sitter and had a great weekend. He's been back a couple of times since then and has stayed

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 5:58pm

Darlin,


I've been alone and dying for a relationship for over 7 YEARS now. A lot of the ladies on here have waited a long time and we all want the same thing: To find Mr. Right.


I don't care what this guy is feeding you, but it's crap. It is coy game. He knows how badly you want a relationship and to have a future with someone, so he's using that against you to make you feel weak.


Don't put your children through this. The right guy will come along and will be understanding and take things in the right and slow direction.


I think soonee was soooooo right.


I've been asked to be married within the first

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Fri, 02-08-2008 - 1:03pm

"He's WILLING?" Yeah, he's WILLING ... to force himself upon you & yoru dd's lives, to USE YOU for back rubs, breakfast, a bed partner, & to blow off your concerns.


I think you had REALLY better take a LONG HARD LOOK AT THIS PERSON - b/c i do NOT think he is who you think he is.

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Fri, 02-08-2008 - 1:09pm

Well, on 1 hand i agree, this isnt something your child should be burened with b/c its too much for her to deal with - only though, based on the fact NEITHER of you barely know this guy.

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Fri, 02-08-2008 - 1:11pm
How many times has he met your dd? I thought it was only like twice? If so, there is NO way to know if someone is good or not, w/ a child , in that minimal, honeymoonish time frame.

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