Hello

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-07-2008
Hello
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Fri, 09-26-2008 - 8:15pm

Hi Everyone,


I was on another board and another very nice member suggested that I come say hello.

KLM
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2008
In reply to: klm143
Fri, 09-26-2008 - 11:28pm

Did I get this right...he lives with his EX's MOM?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-07-2008
In reply to: klm143
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 4:42pm

Yup you got it right.

KLM
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2008
In reply to: klm143
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 4:57pm

Trust me, it makes my skin crawl when he is there. But it is the only way he will come to see the kids. If I made him stay in a hotel he wouldn't come...he's that big a jerk.

But it hasn't happened since June, and I don't expect it to happen any time again soon. What I can't believe is that his girlfriend doesn't mind it!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-07-2008
In reply to: klm143
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 1:33am
OMG!! His GF doesn't mind?
KLM
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: klm143
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 10:29am

Hi, and welcome!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2008
In reply to: klm143
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 12:35pm
Welcome! My guy is going to visit his daughter for her birthday next month and staying at his ex-ILs where his ex lives. I have no problem with it because he's going for his daughter no to be with his ex. Plus they get along. I'd let my ex come stay with the kids at my house if I had to go out of town. Not that he would but still.
I think the big thing is if everyone gets along which they do in EHS's and my situation.
JL
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2008
In reply to: klm143
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 1:39pm

Hi and Welcome KLM!


We are happy to have you. Your situation is understandable in that you need to find time for just the two of you..so important! I'd be frustated with the whole 'living with the exMIL' thing too. Have you been able to find alone time away regularly?


I'm looking forward to hearning more of your stories and sharing! You'll find a lot of experience, sharing, and even some great laughs here! Glad you jumped in ;o)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-07-2008
In reply to: klm143
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 5:59pm

Thanks for the nice welcome!!

KLM
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2008
In reply to: klm143
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 6:25pm

Oh wow, he does have a lot on his plate.


I am sure that through it all he appreciates you. Its hard to relate to a single parent sometimes but you sound very understanding of his time. That is scary about his daughter and the seizures. I had seizures as a child, too. It does not always turn in into epilepsy, as it did not with me. As for the xmil... he's doing good at not blowing up. It will be good for him (and you, and his kids) when he gets the house done. Its hard to live under someone elses roof- their rules- especially relatives..or in his case X relatives. Ick!


Hang in there and we look forward to hearing your questions, updates and stories :o)

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