I think I agree with Moody on this one. Your daughter is a teenager so really doesn't need (or probably want) the same attention that a young child might. You have raised them on your own for the past 7 years and I can understand you wanting to put mom first for a change. I'm sure it has been hard.
If you really want marriage, I would be cautious about this situation but if you are merely looking for adult companionship, it sounds fine. He may or may not warm to the kids. If you are fine only seeing him when you are free without them, the situation is ideal for both of you the way it is.
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Okay--first I would like to say I have read and am honored by
April
I didn't comment yet, mostly because I was too busy, but first of all, welcome!
I'm in slightly the same situation as you- my SO has no children of his own.
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I think I agree with Moody on this one. Your daughter is a teenager so really doesn't need (or probably want) the same attention that a young child might. You have raised them on your own for the past 7 years and I can understand you wanting to put mom first for a change. I'm sure it has been hard.
If you really want marriage, I would be cautious about this situation but if you are merely looking for adult companionship, it sounds fine. He may or may not warm to the kids. If you are fine only seeing him when you are free without them, the situation is ideal for both of you the way it is.
Good luck
Priscilla
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