help - why do my emotions fluctuate

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help - why do my emotions fluctuate
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Tue, 10-07-2008 - 11:54am

oh boy... not sure that anyone can explain but maybe relate... why do my emotions fluctuate? One minute i'm happy and secure... and the next i feel insecure and jealous... what is that all about?


maybe it's getting close to that time of the month? But last night i felt secure.. i felt he likes me and things are going great.


And today... i saw the other chick make a few posts (not to him either) and i feel worried. Like will he forget me, does he really like me or what, will he flirt with the new girl if she comes on stronger than me... oy, i hate feeling this way.


And i feel threatened because i won't be able to make the next few meetups.. but she will... So, i ask myself,

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 7:03pm

You have such a pure heart, you're so thoughtful..what you say here would probably bring the man to tears if he knew what was in your heart.


How about just saying exactly what you feel.. that you are going to miss getting out for the next few meet-ups, because you really enjoy them, and you especially enjoy them because he is there. My bet is that you would really flatter him!


Go with the flow, he digs you! Enjoy this time and just live in the moment of knowing you have his attention. He's showing you that :o)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 8:04pm
Well chickie you got good advise so far and it sounds like you got the affirmation you needed with the texting MM sent you earlier.
 
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Tue, 10-07-2008 - 10:02pm

i must be pms-ing... i still don't feel good today. i think i should just do nothing and wait through this...


i did post my "interesting" comment but he hasn't responded yet.. and i keep telling myself positive things.


1) he told me " i am interested" and reintroduced himself as if saying lets start this.. ya know.


2) he has his own insecurities and from his blogs is a sensitive guy.


3) on a whim we met up last night and he kept saying "thank you for coming over" (even though there was that awkward moment when i thought he wanted to make a move and he didn't)


4) his reassuring text today saying "how can i help"...


5) he sent that song to me saying "you are the most colorful person i know"


6) he's blogging about me and how he "couldn't stop now even if he wanted to..."


sorry to be so loony right now, but i'm hoping if i get it out then i will make it through this night of really weird emotions.


i'm probably just getting attached to this guy...

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 10:05pm

okay working my recovery i better turn this around and make it about me


1) I feel like i can talk about anything and everything with him.


2) i feel turned on when he carries me


3) i love watching heroes with someone


4) i'm afraid of these feelings


5) i will still be me whether he likes me or not


6) i am loved by many and by myself and by Jesus


7) i am blessed beyond measure.


8) i am a wonderful and caring person.


9) i want only to share my joy with others.




Edited 10/7/2008 10:07 pm ET by loonybunny

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