Here's the update to my weekend!

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Here's the update to my weekend!
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Tue, 03-04-2008 - 12:08am

Ok, I'm really frustrated. Do we have an icon for that?


Friday night I went to the night club meetup and it just wasn't what I was into anymore. I was really looking forward to dancing, etc., but it turned out the place we wanted to go to was somehow messed up and it was supposed to be a free entrance fee and then it wasn't. I don't know what the issue was, but they screwed it up and sixty people were standing outside until I suggested another place. It was a great place and all, but I guess I realized I'm just not a night club person anymore. AND I felt really old, although everyone who was with me was my age or older. ANYWAY, kinda of boo hoo.


Soooooo heard from the Hottie guy on Saturday morning and we decided to meet at 6 o'clock. I almost wanted to cancel because I really wanted to stay home with the kids and I had a feeling it would have been best, BUT again, I didn't listen to my gut instinct (I had a gut feeling on Friday night too and didn't listen). So I drive to see him and LADIES.... the man is HOT, HOT, HOT, HOT! I don't think I've seen such an awesome looker yet here in the Carolinas. Well, it's been a rarity. We seemed to have instant chemical click. He had already ordered himself a drink and was waiting on me. Now remember, it's six o'clock. We started talking and it seemed to flow pretty well. We had the same interests and everything. I just don't want to get all into the whole thing, BUT I wanted to pay a long time ago because he seemed SOOO into himself. Which was fine, because he was hot, he was pretty well rounded in conversation and uptodate on topics, etc etc. BUT, he just seemed to be angry at the world somehow. He made this nasty comments all the time about how other people lie, lie, lie to him and he hates liars, etc etc. It was wierd. OK, so get this, I didn't know how to end it and so it was after midnight. He never thought to ask about food or anything and the man had about 16 Jack and Cokes. I mentioned this and wondered if he was ok to drive home. He said he was perfectly in order and you know what? He acted like it. He didn't slur, he acted the same sober self as when I met him and then I wondered how many he had all day. He also proceeded to tell me that the same night that he cancelled our date, he had a house party. He said, he miraculously felt better and decided to invite friends over. OKKKKKKKKK!! DIDN'T I tell you ladies, he was probably lying??????? Here, the guy that hates liars, lied to me. GEESH. I pointed that out, but he said, he wasn't feeling better, until a few hours later. OK, whatever....... I finally got home late when he sends me a text with: sweet dreams. I said thanks and left it to that.


Haven't heard from him since, but not concerned. For the above OBVIOUS reasons....


Remember the guy that I said was so slow on asking me out? Well, he ended up calling and saying he really wanted to go out with me, etc. etc. Wanted to also know if we didn't want to meet up last minute afterall and I said no, I made my plans. So he again proceeded to tell me how great I was, etc etc and he couldn't wait for us to go out and that he had a date for Saturday but not really interested, because he thought I had a great sense of humor. Ok.... whatever.


Heard back from him today. He sent me a joke on match.com. That's it. Then I noticed his profile was no longer on the site so I responded by saying I noticed he wasn't showing himself online anymore and if

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:15am

AHA! Do you know I NEVER knew there were two different spellings to it? GEESH! I spent over 20 years writing it wrong and NO one mentioned it! LOL.


HUGE APOLOGIES to MARK! Who is the Blog King.

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:24am

I think the type of person who is capable of a good relationship has a busy life and is not in a rush for all the infatuation - they are happy with let's go slow and see what happens over time.


A perfect summary of what most of us are looking for - as always wise and inspirational from Clwest!

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:29am

No problem. Given the right photos, no guy is really going to notice or care :-P

Mark who hopes that you find the right guy who complements and compliments her

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:30am

I TOTALLY AGREE with the guys that either tip on way or the other on OLD.


I usually have the guys that want to go WAYYYY to fast or the others that don't because they aren't really THAT into it.


I am REALLY hoping that with the widow it will just go slow, because that is the pace he'll want to take. I can't be rushed and I don't want to be. It makes me panic and run. I also don't want someone who could care less and isn't very pro-active about getting together with me, because he's just not into me. A good balance would be greatly appreciated.

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:37am

I thought I'd share

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:47am

There is nothing bad about either one of those. I guess with hottie the only thing I would question is where is the little girl and why is he moving/new to an area - I mean why would he move away from her if that is what he did.

But I guess this shows you just have to meet them in person. And not have big expectations!! LOL!!

Hottie should add that he likes to enjoy 15 jack and cokes on his night on the town. NEXT!!!!! I would not talk to him any more!!!

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:56am
He's a full time Dad
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:02am

Well it is fair to say that there was nothing in Hottie's profile to tip you off that he was an excessive drinker.

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:03am
The Widow sounds Greeeaaattt!

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:11am

Saying he once wore Khaki's to a KISS concert was his way of discovering how straight laced he was, but now rather be more casual and family oriented vs. the career oriented man he was. I do like a geek, but he is actually a very attractive man and obtained his masters at Wake Forest. I think we'll have some good conversations.