Here's the update to my weekend!

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Here's the update to my weekend!
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Tue, 03-04-2008 - 12:08am

Ok, I'm really frustrated. Do we have an icon for that?


Friday night I went to the night club meetup and it just wasn't what I was into anymore. I was really looking forward to dancing, etc., but it turned out the place we wanted to go to was somehow messed up and it was supposed to be a free entrance fee and then it wasn't. I don't know what the issue was, but they screwed it up and sixty people were standing outside until I suggested another place. It was a great place and all, but I guess I realized I'm just not a night club person anymore. AND I felt really old, although everyone who was with me was my age or older. ANYWAY, kinda of boo hoo.


Soooooo heard from the Hottie guy on Saturday morning and we decided to meet at 6 o'clock. I almost wanted to cancel because I really wanted to stay home with the kids and I had a feeling it would have been best, BUT again, I didn't listen to my gut instinct (I had a gut feeling on Friday night too and didn't listen). So I drive to see him and LADIES.... the man is HOT, HOT, HOT, HOT! I don't think I've seen such an awesome looker yet here in the Carolinas. Well, it's been a rarity. We seemed to have instant chemical click. He had already ordered himself a drink and was waiting on me. Now remember, it's six o'clock. We started talking and it seemed to flow pretty well. We had the same interests and everything. I just don't want to get all into the whole thing, BUT I wanted to pay a long time ago because he seemed SOOO into himself. Which was fine, because he was hot, he was pretty well rounded in conversation and uptodate on topics, etc etc. BUT, he just seemed to be angry at the world somehow. He made this nasty comments all the time about how other people lie, lie, lie to him and he hates liars, etc etc. It was wierd. OK, so get this, I didn't know how to end it and so it was after midnight. He never thought to ask about food or anything and the man had about 16 Jack and Cokes. I mentioned this and wondered if he was ok to drive home. He said he was perfectly in order and you know what? He acted like it. He didn't slur, he acted the same sober self as when I met him and then I wondered how many he had all day. He also proceeded to tell me that the same night that he cancelled our date, he had a house party. He said, he miraculously felt better and decided to invite friends over. OKKKKKKKKK!! DIDN'T I tell you ladies, he was probably lying??????? Here, the guy that hates liars, lied to me. GEESH. I pointed that out, but he said, he wasn't feeling better, until a few hours later. OK, whatever....... I finally got home late when he sends me a text with: sweet dreams. I said thanks and left it to that.


Haven't heard from him since, but not concerned. For the above OBVIOUS reasons....


Remember the guy that I said was so slow on asking me out? Well, he ended up calling and saying he really wanted to go out with me, etc. etc. Wanted to also know if we didn't want to meet up last minute afterall and I said no, I made my plans. So he again proceeded to tell me how great I was, etc etc and he couldn't wait for us to go out and that he had a date for Saturday but not really interested, because he thought I had a great sense of humor. Ok.... whatever.


Heard back from him today. He sent me a joke on match.com. That's it. Then I noticed his profile was no longer on the site so I responded by saying I noticed he wasn't showing himself online anymore and if

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:15am
I think so too. He seems funny too. I hope he's had time to heal, but for some reason I wouldn't mind if he didn't yet. IT would be understandable and I think everyone needs to have a degree of understanding. I know I wouldn't feel bad if he talked about her to me. I'm open to that.
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:33am
Wow - that is very good of him. So the alcohol thing was a total monkey wrench in what sounds like a good one. But the great thing is that you are doing a great job at seeing it and acting on that and not swooshing it under the rug for the sake of being in a relationship! That is what I call good work.
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:46am

Totally agree -

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 2:18pm

PacSun: A new disc golf meetup starts next week here in Charlotte. I thought about going because I keep hearing how much fun you have.


WHAT??? Girl you gotta go!!!! DO it for ME...lol!!! Wish I could go with ya. maybe you could email and inquire if someone will have an extra set of discs so you can participate. Ooooh let me know of you go so I can hear about it. I think you would love it. Outdoors, fun people, and a great game! I encouage you. Is it co-ed?


~Pacific~
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 2:25pm

OK I did not like Hottie's profile. First of all, who writes in ALL CAPS? Unless his is a primate who types with his thumbs? I don't know- I just read party guy into fun only when I read it, which was hard to read anyway in all caps. NEXT.


But

~Pacific~
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 2:31pm
It's co-ed and I have to bring my own discs. ALTHOUGH, my best friends husband has some. I could ask to borrow them.
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 2:34pm

Do it!


My group is growing. I met one gal last Friday and we had fun playing a round together. Another two ladies plan on meeting up with me this Sunday. And I have three guys interested, so I plan on getting us all together this weekend. And this was your idea so I thank you!! It's going great!!


~Pacific~
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 3:03pm

Hey--won't it be great if there are a bunch of single people that get together because of your group?

April

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 3:26pm
disc golf--I know there are a lot of guys here that play--I have gotten hit with one at the park before, LOL!
~Pacific~
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 4:30pm

I can't even imagine staying with a man for 15 drinks.