Here's the update to my weekend!

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Here's the update to my weekend!
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Tue, 03-04-2008 - 12:08am

Ok, I'm really frustrated. Do we have an icon for that?


Friday night I went to the night club meetup and it just wasn't what I was into anymore. I was really looking forward to dancing, etc., but it turned out the place we wanted to go to was somehow messed up and it was supposed to be a free entrance fee and then it wasn't. I don't know what the issue was, but they screwed it up and sixty people were standing outside until I suggested another place. It was a great place and all, but I guess I realized I'm just not a night club person anymore. AND I felt really old, although everyone who was with me was my age or older. ANYWAY, kinda of boo hoo.


Soooooo heard from the Hottie guy on Saturday morning and we decided to meet at 6 o'clock. I almost wanted to cancel because I really wanted to stay home with the kids and I had a feeling it would have been best, BUT again, I didn't listen to my gut instinct (I had a gut feeling on Friday night too and didn't listen). So I drive to see him and LADIES.... the man is HOT, HOT, HOT, HOT! I don't think I've seen such an awesome looker yet here in the Carolinas. Well, it's been a rarity. We seemed to have instant chemical click. He had already ordered himself a drink and was waiting on me. Now remember, it's six o'clock. We started talking and it seemed to flow pretty well. We had the same interests and everything. I just don't want to get all into the whole thing, BUT I wanted to pay a long time ago because he seemed SOOO into himself. Which was fine, because he was hot, he was pretty well rounded in conversation and uptodate on topics, etc etc. BUT, he just seemed to be angry at the world somehow. He made this nasty comments all the time about how other people lie, lie, lie to him and he hates liars, etc etc. It was wierd. OK, so get this, I didn't know how to end it and so it was after midnight. He never thought to ask about food or anything and the man had about 16 Jack and Cokes. I mentioned this and wondered if he was ok to drive home. He said he was perfectly in order and you know what? He acted like it. He didn't slur, he acted the same sober self as when I met him and then I wondered how many he had all day. He also proceeded to tell me that the same night that he cancelled our date, he had a house party. He said, he miraculously felt better and decided to invite friends over. OKKKKKKKKK!! DIDN'T I tell you ladies, he was probably lying??????? Here, the guy that hates liars, lied to me. GEESH. I pointed that out, but he said, he wasn't feeling better, until a few hours later. OK, whatever....... I finally got home late when he sends me a text with: sweet dreams. I said thanks and left it to that.


Haven't heard from him since, but not concerned. For the above OBVIOUS reasons....


Remember the guy that I said was so slow on asking me out? Well, he ended up calling and saying he really wanted to go out with me, etc. etc. Wanted to also know if we didn't want to meet up last minute afterall and I said no, I made my plans. So he again proceeded to tell me how great I was, etc etc and he couldn't wait for us to go out and that he had a date for Saturday but not really interested, because he thought I had a great sense of humor. Ok.... whatever.


Heard back from him today. He sent me a joke on match.com. That's it. Then I noticed his profile was no longer on the site so I responded by saying I noticed he wasn't showing himself online anymore and if

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:00pm

He sent me a joke and nothing else, but removed his profile.


I asked him, if he was revamping his profile or if his date was so good that he removed it and won't be dating any longer.


He sent me one word: spectacular


Nothing else. No I'm sorry, we won't be going on that date or I had a really great time but won't be dating. He just sent me that dumb joke to make me realize he removed me.


That is why I reacted. He had rescheduled twice and then promised us to

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:13pm

Hmm- I agree with Soonee on this: Why the HECK did you sit around with Mr. Hottie for FIFTEEN drinks?


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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:18pm
I KNOW, I agree I stayed tooooo LONG, but I somehow just didn't really know HOW to end it. I don't know why I felt awkward but it just seemed so awkward and embarrassing to just leave. Next time I do need a backup plan. I just didn't know how to do it. I didn't think I needed one and it took me off guard. I kept trying to think he might just be a poor soul and need someone to talk to. I don't know. I felt bad for him somehow. So not bad enough to go through another date, but bad enough to stay as long as I did. I tried on three different attempts to break it earlier and the third time was the charm.
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:26pm

Well, it is not like this happens often. But Soonee is right for what she says.

I have an idea - and one I will keep in mind. Look at your phone and say i have to go - like you got a text message from home.

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:58pm

Oooh!

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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 12:23am
OMGosh, I soo didn't take it as criticism. I agree, it was dumb. Honestly,

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