He's Afraid to Meet my Kids

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He's Afraid to Meet my Kids
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Thu, 08-28-2008 - 8:39am

At least I think he is. And my kids arent particularly scary either. RG wont do anything with me that involves my kids. He hasnt said he wont but he avoids it. I have asked hundreds of times and he says he will but when the time comes he always has an excuse or cant be contacted. He's good at avoidance.


So I wonder, why doesnt common sense get the better of me? Why is it I keep hanging on to him and hoping something will come of it?


Laurie

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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 11:28am

Wow!!!

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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 11:54am

Laurie,


How are you feeling about it today?



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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 12:10pm
(CNDG) 's a great person but she's not relationship material.

I have Cute Widow and I am blessed and lucky to find her. I know I would not have met her if I was still hanging on with CNDG.


Mark- just wanted to comment here that I know this was a huge thing for you to realize..I'm proud that you can say that now honestly. You held on tightly to a hope that was not there. CW would be so touched and honored to hear what you just wrote here about her and how your heart is no longer rooted to CNDG.


I just think this is great growth!

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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 12:11pm

I am feeling pretty darn good but that might be my 25 mile bike ride with a friend. But I know you guys are right. This is a go no where relationship that I have to move on from.

Thanks

Laurie

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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 9:42pm
Darlin, you know we love you, we want the best for you and all of us just don't want to see you shrivel up from being soooo freaking dry. If ya catch my drift. LOL.
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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 10:22pm

No WONDER i was confused the other day!

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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 10:23pm
Im sorry - religous beleifs or not - you now have a grown man in a relationship with a WILLING woman for 1.5 years & NO SEX ... Plus add in he wont meet your kids? Something isnt right.
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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 10:26pm
Oh Dr. Cat ... did you want to prescibe that for me as well?

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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 10:41pm

And I have this hot hot hot pilot friend who has offered himself to me too, only problem is he lives in NJ and I live in MA. I think we might have to meet in NY or CT soon.

Laurie

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Sat, 08-30-2008 - 4:14am

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My thoughts EXACTLY.

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