Hey I'm making it past the 2nd date!
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Hey I'm making it past the 2nd date!
| Mon, 06-23-2008 - 2:12pm |
I have been feeling off during the last month and I attribute that to my tinnitus-ear ringing and the eHarmony revolving door of one time dates plus still feeling skittish about work.

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I guess we're just acting like protective sisters here- and don't want to see you diving in too fast or too soon (before really knowing this woman, who seems to be in a rush to dive as well)... and having you guys crash and burn.
I know I've learned that it takes time, OVER TIME- to get to know what a person is really like. Not just a long bit of intense time. People can pretend over a weekend. But they can't pretend over several months.
But, if you think you are ready to dive in (I think you already dove on your first date!)- you are a grown man afterall and we can't stop you!
It just does seem a bit fast though- which is probably why you are getting these responses, Mark!
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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We are like a flock of protective sisters.
I think what got me up in an alarm was the whole weekend and rearrange everything to fit that kind of thing.
But maybe that is because I would not want to be stuck with someone, other than me, my 2 dogs and DS, for a WHOLE weekend!! LOL!!
But yes - it does take a lot of time over time to get to know someone.
I agree it does take time AND in some ways it does not.
~shrimpy
It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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OH sure... I would not really characterize this coming weekend as a date per se.
I would view it more as time where we share thoughts, selves,
I would say that any sharing of FLUIDS constitutes a date. Not every date has fluid-sharing... but any fluid-sharing get-together makes it a 'date'. LOL
~Hoping to share a bit of fluid later this evening..... except for that darn AF. *****
~shrimpy
It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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If your gut instinct is telling you this is a good thing? Then I say GO FOR IT!!!
Stephanie
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