Hey Mark...whats been up??
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Hey Mark...whats been up??
| Thu, 04-24-2008 - 1:10pm |
Hi Mark,
Just wanted to get a status update on you. I always look forward to reading your post and value everything you say. Im kind of getting a feeling you are a bit off right now...not the always upbeat grounded centered person ive come to know (in a very short period of time so i may be WAY off here). You seem a bit distracted and sort of ho-hum...Anywho...if im totally off just shrug it off and consider it a shout out to a fellow former jersey-ian.
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Thanks for asking about me.
Cheer up Mark...I know loss is a powerful emotion and can really pull you down but i like to think if you didnt have loss it wouldnt make room for new growth (to corny???) Its true though...even when im
The loss for new growth?
Mark,
So well said by Dance-
I echo her sentiments. I've come to know you as more than a wise soul but a thoughtful one who brings happiness, laughter and depth to this board.
The pain centered around CNDG.. can only take time to heal. The good news is that it will- in it's own way. The pain is in letting go of hope for more. Holding onto the hope must be painful as it is not being reciprocated. I wonder of she gives you any (false?) reason to hope. Or does she in fact feel that there could be more later?
You're an amazing person and there are women out there ready and on the same page as you... and I know how hard it can be to not know when or where she will show up! Just as you said...the pain is temporary-
I let go of the one who I felt to be my soulmate many years ago. We connected deeply on a mental, spiritual and emotional plane. But timing was off, I was not ready I suppose, I was so young. I held onto remorse and regret for letting him go (he moved on with his life) for years. Finally I let go. But I will never forget him, he changed my life for the better.
I hope you feel that peace!!
Pac,
It is harder when the separation is not due to any obvious fault of the other person (like alcohol, abuse , cheating...).You keep wondering if you indeed did the right thing.
Exactly- this was the case with me and him. (S)
Thank you dance for such kind words.
Thanks Pac.
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