Hey Pacific where are you?

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Hey Pacific where are you?
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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 9:08am
Pacificsun!!

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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:09pm

Hey Isys!


Thanks for asking. My weekend was good... I had dinner Friday with my photographer friend B (friend only) at his place as he used DD for some more photo projects. He wants to get me back on the bike as he is an avid cyclist- as if I have the time!


Saturday I ran errands and took DD to recital practice. BE called and had some interesting news. His DD called and was on her way to his place. He said he would rather spend the afternoon and evening with me and my DD if that would be OK. So he had a brief conversation with his DD upon her arrival then diverted her to her moms (his exs)! That was really a new thing for BE- and that night we had dinner and he said he felt relieved she was staying with his ex.


I played 36 holes of DG Sunday plus went to the beach. I wore myself out but in a really good way. Yesterday (monday) morning I woke up and my shower drain was backed up so I had to have the plumber come over which took most of the morning. I got to work and had sooo much to catch up on!


How was your weekend?


~Pacific~



Edited 6/10/2008 12:09 pm ET by pacific_sun
~Pacific~
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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:31pm

Hey Pac...wanted to say hi and let you know I definitely sense a very nice bounce in your step. You sound grounded and peaceful...umm happy.


:0) M

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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:36pm

Hi Pacs!

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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:41pm

Thanks, M!!


I do feel grounded..I feel balanced. I'm not giving

~Pacific~
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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:45pm

Your weekend sounded nice!! Did you get through the graduation without losing it?? I would have fallen to pieces! I bet he loved the laptop. what a nice gift!


I love the idea of your mental health day tomorrow. I so need those sometimes. I WISH I could have a garage sale- but I live in an appt so I can't. I've got a tome of things I could

~Pacific~
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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 1:09pm

The SATC movie was really good.

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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 2:29pm

Hi Pac!

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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 2:49pm

Wow, you are going to be one busy mamma this week!! Ever feel like you could use a clone? Where are you going Saturday night that you want to get something sassy for?


As for BE, it was not strange to be with him..it felt comfortable and without tension. What I feel inside is some kind of healing and assurance. It feels like a thorn was removed from my skin. I'm still raw but I can feel the difference. The

~Pacific~
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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 2:59pm

So… do you feel like you can pick up where you were, or that there is still work to be done?

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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 3:15pm

The couple shower sounds fun! Now if you can only find time to shop, right? I'm sure you will look sassy in anything..you're so cute!!


It feels different, not exactly where we were before..but more solid and I'm not as emotionally clinging and so it feels steady in a way that is more realistic. Before all this I craved the chemistry, the sexual tension between us, the emotional push and pull game, to a point. I guess it was all part of the initial infatuation and attraction phase. What I feel now is more of a cooperation, an understanding and a renewed respect between us. We are not right back where we were..but instead we are in a new place- and I'm sort of just discovering it. It's like waking up in a new field with him there, but both of us equally equipped and ready. I don't know if that makes any sense or not. But I'm being more careful now, I feel more sure of myself

~Pacific~

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