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His email question
| Wed, 05-28-2008 - 12:59pm |
So I wrote a very direct email to him, basicly stating It has to be 100 percent done with her, no phone calls, or I'm out.
His email response this morning:
I WILL do what you require. I will have to wait until the next time she contacts me. That may be some time before she does. Until then, do you want to put our plans on hold until that time

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I would tell him "why wait?"
He knows that it's a point that you won't bend on, and he should just pick up the friggin' phone and call her, tell her not to call him again. Tell her that he is with you now, and that further contact with her (and her drama) only gets in the way. So if he is going to wait until SHE calls again?? What if she calls in some other panic or distressed drama-filled situation that she needs his ear for... and then he is supposed to stop her and tell her not to call in the middle of THAT?? He needs to call her now- when there is no needy drama on her part for calling... and just cut it clean.
Why is he willing to put YOUR relationship on hold, while waiting on HER to do something??? It's not any different. It's still putting her first. And he's letting her have the control over the time frame.
Dang it, Pacific... this makes me sick inside for you.
~shrimpy
It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Funny you should say that because he actually mentioned doing that last night....then he retracted it said, no we shouldnt call her.
I think he would do that, with me present though. It's seriously a thought.
This is exaclty how I feel. I swear I would like to cut and paste your post to an email to him. You said what I am feeling. I am going to email that to him (in my own words but plagerizing you a bit!)
Wish me luck and prayers that he gets this through his thick skull or I am done. I'm not waiting for her to call him.
OK I totally plagerized you. I'm usually good with words but this moring I'm so frustrated the words would not have come out right. So I just used your post to me to emaiul him my thoughts. I just sent this:
"Why wait? Pick up the
Ok, I gotta get caught up.
Glad my venting can help!!! lol
We got your back, Pacific... we'll keep whispering in your ear if you let us. :-) Hang tight... and I hope he steps up.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Yes, Yes, Yes!!!
That may be some time before she does. Until then, do you want to put our plans on hold until that time
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