His email question

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His email question
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 12:59pm

So I wrote a very direct email to him, basicly stating It has to be 100 percent done with her, no phone calls, or I'm out.


His email response this morning:


I WILL do what you require. I will have to wait until the next time she contacts me. That may be some time before she does. Until then, do you want to put our plans on hold until that time
~Pacific~
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 2:23pm

Thank you soccermom!!! It feels soooo good that

~Pacific~
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 4:58pm

Hey Pacsun, I'll be down in Southern Cal in August so if you don't get this resolved by then then I'll come down to cover your back then we can go party!

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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 5:14pm

Pac~


I *live* in So Cal so I'm already here and I'll be there in a heartbeat if you need me.

Cat
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 5:19pm

Mark, that would be awesome!


I would love to show you Santa Barbara and disc golf would be great!!


~Pacific~
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 5:25pm

Cat-


I'm sooo ready to take you up on that. I got your number my friend. Thanks for being there for me.


I just got an email from him in reply to mine. He writes:


I never call her. I attempted to call her with the only phone number I have, but it now belongs to someone else. What would you like to recommmend next?

~Pacific~
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 5:38pm

So when she calls him, there is NO caller ID number to return the call?


I agree, Pacific- the way he is asking YOU what to do next. As if whatever happens, it is YOUR problem/fault/wantings and he is not responsible for anything that happens. It's like he doesn't like being told what to do- because it's something he doesn't want to do. And he is only doing it because you asked him to, not because he actually "gets it" just WHY he shouldn't be talking to Broom Hilda.


Hugs, Pac!!!!!

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 5:39pm

Call me if and when she does and if you resolve this.


Pac, you are my new hero and role model.

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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 5:44pm

As if whatever happens, it is YOUR problem/fault/wantings and he is not responsible for anything that happens. It's like he doesn't like being told what to do-


~Pacific~
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 5:47pm

Pac, you are my new hero and role model.

~Pacific~
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 6:23pm

That does sound sarcastic.

Cat