Hmm not sure ....

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Registered: 03-10-2008
Hmm not sure ....
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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 4:10pm

So a friend from way back when found me on Myspace. I think EVERYONE is on Myspace these days! Anyhow he had messaged me a few times and spur of the moment I decided to meet him last night for drinks. Here is the issue..


He dated a old friend of mine for about 8 months

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Tue, 04-08-2008 - 4:20pm

If this happened years ago I don't see a problem.

April

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Registered: 03-10-2008
Tue, 04-08-2008 - 7:04pm

Well HE told her today because they are still friends and I do not even know how to contact her anymore. She was ok with it according to him but she did tell him plenty of unpleasant things about me which makes me think she still has a thing for him even though they have not been together in over 3 years. I know the whole history of their relationship and why they did not work out. I think he is a great guy and am not willing to judge him on past relationship issues they had. I am just a little miffed that she would tell him things I disclosed during the course of our friendship! We are meeting for dinner thursday so I have two dates thurdays! Yay!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 04-08-2008 - 9:19pm

Well he only DATED her - he was not married to her. And you are not friends anymore and that was a long time ago.

I say if he is nice and into you and you like him - then date him!! Chances are she would do the same thing.