Hmm...dating/sex ?
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Hmm...dating/sex ?
| Sun, 08-14-2005 - 6:16pm |
Had my second date with my nice guy. I have to tell you I really like this dating thing better at this age as opposed to being in my twenties! It seems there are no games and I am finding myself to be much more upfront. A new one for me! Anyways, I am being curious and thinking about the deed....hmm...how long do you wait until your intimate? I am thinking, we like each other and are both adults so I don't know why I am having a hard time deciding, it's a no brainer! I don't want him to think I am easy, and in fact joked about it last night and told him I was playing hard to get! I know I won't be able to hold out on our third date!!!!!! So, I am hoping the thirds a charm, we'll see. I'd love to hear some feedback about how long others have waited, etc. Feeling naive at 38!

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I'm glad your date went well, but I must caution you one thing. You don't really know this guy well, you've only had a few dates with him and things have gone well. But people are on their best behaviour (usually, there are of course exeptions) when they are first dating, so be careful. I'm sure after being with jerk that any nice behaviour from a guy is overly welcome- but remember that your ex was probably nice to you in the beginning too, right?
So take it slow and really get to know him before you fall head over heels.
Hopefully he really is a great guy and you two will have a great time in the getting to know each other stage. Be sure to keep us posted on further dates!
Alison
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