Hmmmm...

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2004
Hmmmm...
3
Mon, 05-12-2008 - 3:00am

I have a strange dilema....


For the past almost month I've been dating this GREAT guy (who I also dated about

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2002
In reply to: kiddo_as
Mon, 05-12-2008 - 7:13am

My opinion is it's only been a month... give yourself and him more time... perhaps the nervousness will go away some after a while....


my other opinion is TALK to him.... ask him the same questions you are asking in this post... you could say, do i make you nervous? you could say... why don't you ask me out once and a while? you could ask, do you want to give us a shot because i do... etc... i think the only way to give it a shout is to open up with him....


Hope i've helped...


Loonybunny


(now maybe you can give me your opinion in my next post...)

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: kiddo_as
Mon, 05-12-2008 - 9:17am
Wow - that is a dilemma. But I can see where his goofiness would put you off. Do you think he would get a little better if he had a glass of wine? It sounds to me like he likes you so much it is making everything too awkward. I would try different things - so he can get more used to you. And maybe after a kiss it would be better and he would relax more - maybe you need more wine? LOL!! Keep us posted - see what the others say - I am sure they will all have good suggestions!
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2004
In reply to: kiddo_as
Mon, 05-12-2008 - 10:47am
Lol, I already tried getting him tipsy and it helped a bit, but still pretty nervous....maybe I need a LOT more wine!