Hogging the board...
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Hogging the board...
| Tue, 09-30-2008 - 10:00am |
Sorry, I'm hogging the board, but yesterday I felt SOOO bad, because I finally had to tell two of the guys I was seeing that I wasn't into them. WOW! Now I understand why sometimes men just ghost. It's sooo awkward and when one of them called, I didn't pick up. I just let go to vm and then I told him over chat. Isn't that just soooo immature?? I don't know, I really felt bad, but I can't lead someone on and stay with them JUST because they like me and I don't like them. UGH! Anyone else have any stories of where YOU had to tell a guy: sorry, but I just don't "like" you that way....

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Ugh is right!
I guess the biggest reason a person would ghost rather than say, "thanks, but no thanks" is so they don't have to deal with the "but why?" that most people will ask. No one wants to hurt someone by saying they're not into someone else.
Yea, I've had to do it. It's best IMO. I mean ...no one likes being ghosted on and I figured that stringing anyone along is worse. In my past I gave it maybe two dates..and then when I was not feeling chemistry I would just say I'm sorry but its not going to work out but
When I was doing OLD, CM was the only *I* contacted, but had others contact me.
I'm Yay-ing along with you!!!
So fun to have a reason to dress up! I bet you'll look great in your new dress and shoes. Go out there and have a great time!! Update tomorrow is mandatory..lol!!
I have been pretty direct in telling women that I don't think this is a match.
I would probably call him and tell him that he does not HAVE to come all the way over to pick you up unless he wants to...because of theclose
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