Holy Cow!!

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Holy Cow!!
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Tue, 09-16-2008 - 8:20pm

I am attracting some young men!! I expected mostly old perverts but all the winks and emails are coming from men my age or younger. Whoo hoo!! I am corresponding with a 35 yr old right now. We have musical interests and writing in common. He is never married/no kids; I think my preference is someone with kids (just so they get it) but we will see.

He just finished his doctorate in Biochemistry which is sexy/cool to me. He has a preppy name, cute young look, and seems to be a bit of an outdoor sports enthusiast. (yeah...I know nothing about snowboarding) He says he prefers bold outgoing women but when I told him I was a bit more introverted but surrounded myself with outgoing women, he said that was just as good. Not a bad start really. I have some winks from some potentials, so I winked back.

Oh and SC guy just emailed me apologizing for the slow delay (deadline at work) and that he will call me this week. He lives two states away so I see him mostly as practice but he is really cute so I would be up for meeting up with him while he is in town. (unless his phone voice is awful...yeah that is a turnoff)




Edited 9/16/2008 8:33 pm ET by msmsavannah
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Registered: 11-20-2007
In reply to: msmsavannah
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 9:17pm
Congrats you hot mama!
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In reply to: msmsavannah
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:42pm

As I age and the common assertion how we all say "I look younger than my age" I feel that I'm one of those "older perverts" when I feel attracted to those women who are younger.

Mark who is glad that he is seeing a woman who still gets asked for her ID when we go out for a drink and who is told that he has a body of a 25 yr old .. ah to be Asian!





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Registered: 07-14-2007
In reply to: msmsavannah
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:44pm
You know I prefer an older pervert who looks young than those men who say they are my age but look much older. It really is all in how one has aged more than the age itself.
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Registered: 03-19-2008
In reply to: msmsavannah
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 8:25am

Dont rule out the men who dont have kids. I dated two of them and they both got it and both were totally understanding and we had no kid issues at all. Actually the ones I dated who did have kids were less understanding.

Laurie

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Registered: 07-14-2007
In reply to: msmsavannah
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 8:36pm

Right now I am not ruling them out if they meet my basic criteria. i still need the practice to help fine tune. I sent out a bunch of winks tonight so let's see if I get any response. I guess my profile is a little generic but I will continue to tweak it as I get more aware. Eharmony is proving to be a waste this time. I have received all of one match since joining. Before I got 10 or more a day.

I can't help but notice I get fewer bites than I did when I was younger. It is not my looks because I believe I look better now than before. But it only takes one person that shows interest and for whom I can get excited.