Hot and Heavy...

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Hot and Heavy...
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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 5:27pm
emails, that is. Crush and I emailed all weekend, basically one-liners, and let me tell you ladies, he IS that into me. He invited me to see the band play this Friday night, which was unneccessary, since I'm friends with the other members of the band, and their wives, which is how I met him. But it was nice to be personally invited by him, and it made my weekend. Now, if he'd only invite me on a one-on-one date... which he alluded to, but didn't actually DO yet. Ah, well, gives me something to look forward to. Also a reason to check in with work's email, which means I'm getting a little extra work done, too!
Now my biggest fear is clamming up when I see him, something I'm famous for. It's very easy to be confident and flirty in email, but I find it much harder without the security blanket my delete button provides. Trying to psyche myself up for being the fun, confident person I know I am; I'm thinking tequila should do the trick! ;-)

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 10:50pm

Well this is certainly great news. Do keep us posted - we love updates and details!!

There was an alumni of this board that met a man the way you did and she got married to him. I will keep my fingers crossed for you!!

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 12:57pm
Well, now I've gone and opened my mouth.. he mentioned a date, I said yes, we should go on a date, what did you have in mind, and zilch, zero, nada, nothing... haven't heard from him since. Grrrrrr, I think I'm good at coming on too strong and scaring men off. Which is okay, I guess, since I want to be me, and not pretend to be meek and mild, since I'm not. The right guy will like me for me. I was thinking,since he was telling me and our mutual friends that he liked me, that R might be a good fit. We seem to have a lot in common, we have been out with the group a few times and hit it off, and in emails, there seem to be sparks. We just can't seem to get to the first solo date. Sorry for venting here, I'm just annoyed right now that I let myself get so excited so quickly, I KNOW better, darn it!

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Wed, 03-08-2006 - 3:52pm
I love it! Just be careful. Tequila does have it's side effect. For me, tequila makes my panties fly off!
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 4:17pm
Don't write him off just yet - guys work on "glacier" time sometimes - maybe he is getting up the courage to ask you. Just have fun with him and let him do the asking now that you put the ball in his court. I think you will be okay.
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Registered: 02-08-2006
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 5:16pm
I was kidding about the tequila, not only does it make her clothes come off, it also makes her puke all over!
And I've decided to just let it ride. Hopefully, things will work out. If they don't, I'll be sorry, but not depressed. It obviously wasn't meant to be. I'm not going to chase him, any more than I already have. I like what I know about him, and I'd love to get to know him better, but I'm feeling a little ansty right now. Must be a mood thing. One second I just wish he'd hurry up and CALL already, the other I'm like, oh, whatever, I'm having sooo much fun on my own without a guy. Grrr sometimes I can't even stand to be around myself!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 9:01pm
Well tequila probably gets us all in trouble!! That is funny!!
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