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How are we supposed to know?
| Sat, 11-10-2007 - 1:03pm |
I have been seeing this guy for about a year.
He has called a few times and asked me to come to town.
Most of the time we hook up later in the evening and go home together.
He has made the comment on a couple of occasions that I am his 'girlfriend' (while we are alone and also to people in our crowd)... however, we don't spend a lot of time together.
How do I know if he is using me or not?

A guy who really wants a relationship and who is that into you will state that right off the bat. He will be nervous around you and will go out of his way to please you. He will call you and communicate with you on a regular basis. If that is what you want, you have to be willing to wait for it and to screen out ones who only want the physical stuff right away - because they also make that known right away.
I would not say that this one is using you - but if you really want to mean something to him and be a girlfriend in a happy and stable committed relationship then this one is not for you.
Be picky and patient my friend. Welcome to our board - I hope you stay and participate in all our posts. This is a great place!!