How do I get over this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2008
How do I get over this?
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Thu, 07-24-2008 - 8:57am

i posted this on another forum but then found this one and thought maybe someone here could offer some insight.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 12:44pm

Hello Miami and welcome to our board-


~Pacific~
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Registered: 09-01-2006
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 1:11pm

So, in summary,

Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 1:21pm

Check your iVillage eMail....


~s~

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 1:26pm

What Pac said.


Stop all contact: no calls, no visits, no text messaging, no emails.


No dating.


Build a (non romantic) life.


Take care.


Mark





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2008
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 1:28pm
I have to agree totally with the other 2 replies on here.

JH

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 1:47pm
One other thing I forgot, more practical and on the clinical side- and I don't mean to sound crude or heartless- but please remember that yet another bad thing about continuing intimacy with him is that he is actively dating other women and more than likely is sleeping with them (and just sparing you the details) ...so when you are tempted to let him back in the bed, picture it in your mind- he is being with other women and that should help stop your desire. For your own health and well being- stop the intimacy and contact.
~Pacific~
~Pacific~
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2007
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 1:52pm

I like your advice and am taking it for myself one day at

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-13-2007
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 2:32pm

I'm so sorry you are going through this heartbreak.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2008
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 2:35pm

"but you

JH