How to get back into dating?

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Registered: 07-14-2007
How to get back into dating?
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 8:51pm

Ok,I want to go on a date or two or three...but I am so clueless.

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Registered: 11-22-2006
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 7:39am
Ahha! good suggestion....As everyone might remember, I never really could get into online dating but when I met SYB we kept running into each other over and over. I was so friendly and talked so openly about my kid he thought I was married and just happy - how funny is that? I asked him out to lunch and he accepted thinking I was looking for friendship and then found out over sushi that I was also single. It is honestly the only time I have ever asked anyone out - seriously. I just felt like we kept seeing each other and I really liked him - I knew nothing about him really but tha t was kind of the point, right? I wanted to know MORE. So I give a thumbs up for asking someone out if you feel the urge....worked for me!
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Registered: 07-14-2007
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 9:10am
Just turned 30!!!
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Registered: 07-14-2007
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 9:22am

Patience, that is where I have trouble.

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 9:35am

LOL.... I'm 35 but that doesn't stop me... i don't feel old... i feel younger than i've ever been... but wiser, and more confident. Younger men are awesome, in my opinion. TG's friend has been married before and has two 6 six old twins. He's from North Carolina.. He's a nice guy.... not a womanizer.


So, i take it you're not interested in meeting TG's friend.

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 11:16am
Asking someone out?
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Registered: 04-14-2008
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 11:53am

As some one who is also new to dating for the first time in years. Just do it.


I can think of few things I would like more than for a woman to ask me out.


Hasn't happened since high school. :-)


Mike

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 12:32pm

Two of the guys here just confirmed that they are flattered and LIKE to be asked out. I know what you're thinking...you could never be that bold. But...think of it like this. Say you know some guy who has a great smile or is interesting in some way or another. Say from work, school, the

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 2:17pm

What you said Pacsun.

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