How many chances can one guy get????

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Registered: 03-11-2004
How many chances can one guy get????
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 1:55pm
OK as always in my posts its a long one so read on if youve got the time...will try to shorten it up so your eyes dont bleed...

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 5:00pm

"He says cant you do this for me?"


State simply that this is no longer about HIM and YOU- this is about your mutual CHILD and what is needed for HER to have the best life, and part of that is financial support from BOTH PARENTS.


It does sound like he's getting less to you, be proud of that- you've hit a turning point.


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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 10:14pm

Wow mom-little-star - it sounds like you are getting stronger here and that you did a great job of putting/keeping CP in his place. That is HUGE!!!!! I think you handled that well.

The others I would kick to the curb.

GOOD STUFF!!!!

"Ill be filing the papers to enforce the back money on friday afternoon..."

PRICELESS!! Way to go!!

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Registered: 12-06-1998
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 12:38am

Makes you wonder WHAT is true doesn't it!

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Good on you!!
If his life is in a mess it's not your dd's fault, he needs to help support her.

 



Tracy

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 12:53am

How many chances? NO MORE chances. He has blown them all, over & over.


He knows what buttons to press. YOU are not a sociopath. YOU have empathy & sympathy for those less fortunate (you know, like HIM ... b/c he is CLUEless).

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